🙅‍♂️ In the interest of "failing fast", here are things about me that are most likely to be a dealbreaker for you:

• I'm shy, even socially awkward.
• I'm not outdoorsy -- I don't really enjoy camping and hiking.
• I have a low amount of experience within the kink community.

📖 I'm 37M, 6'0, with brown hair, glasses, and an average build. I work as a software engineer in Boston. My hobbies include reading (especially sci-fi), games, anime, visiting art museums, baking, and trying new food. I'm a lifelong learner, and also enjoy learning more about programming as a hobby. You can see a (SFW) picture of me here: https://imgur.com/a/GLeEA3D

🌎 Regarding location: I moved to Boston pre-pandemic for work. Since then, my work has become remote-friendly. I'm likely to relocate in the next year, with NYC as my current top prospect.

😍 I'm looking for someone kindhearted for a long-term, ideally monogamous relationship. Physical touch and words of affirmation go a long way for me; I love cuddling. The age range I'm looking for isn't strict, but you're probably close to my age or skewing younger (say, 28-38). You're healthy and take care of yourself. If you're located near me, that's awesome -- for the right person, though, I'm open to a long-distance relationship and travel.

⭐ My favorite kinks involve affection, bondage, and even some CNC -- you can see my full kinklist at https://imgur.com/cUpXrip.

❌ Beyond the limits in the linked list above (things like blood/scat), I'm not interested in findom. I see a relationship as a partnership for mutual joy and growth. If I can only provide that using money, the relationship isn't viable.

📬 Do we sound compatible? Shoot me a DM! I'd prefer to take things slowly and form a connection before we dive much into kink. But if there's any title you'd already like me to address you by, let me know and I will use it.