Hi my name is James. I’m 24 and based in south west London.

I guess I’m a little nerdy and can be a little shy. I suppose opposites attract as I have always been attracted to confident people on tv and in general life from quite an early age.

Some of my interests are: sports (too many) current affairs, history, psychology, philosophy, film/tv, economics and enjoy smoking weed every now and then

I recently graduated uni and now work in finance. Ironically I have to act outwardly confident and dominant in my job. I also used to be fairly sporty and am in pretty decent shape, so I imagine most of the people who know me probably wouldn’t think that I’m submissive in my private life.

I am looking for something longterm and ideally would like a female led relationship. While i don’t mind a strict approach, I enjoy the gentler side of things a lot too. I am essentially looking for a domiant girlfriend. I would ideally want to fall in love with someone to the point I would do anything for them not only because they controlled me but because I adored them.

I would also be looking to take it slow and get to know you before jumping in at the deep end and completely giving myself up to someone.

I’m still fairly inexperienced so I’m open to exploring. Generally I enjoy things far more of my partner enjoys them too, so I prefer to focus on what they like. But in terms of kinks I’m into: blindfolds, bondage, collars, power exchange, affectionate cruelty, gentle femdom, tease and denial, face sitting, edging, tease and denial, orgasm control.

Curious to explore anal, like the idea of hidden public although it scares me and don’t mind rules /micromanaging. Somewhat curious about chastity but also not sure how I could manage that with while wearing a suit.

I’m not really into feminisation, extreme pain although I can tolerate some. I can deal with humiliation and degradation but I would rather be told I’m a good boy than someone tell me I’m worthless

Forced bi, cuckholding and anything involving family or friends is a dealbreaker. Ultimately I’m aiming for monogamy even if it’s not everyone’s thing

Thank you for taking the time to read my post. If there’s anything else you’d like to know feel free to ask. Happy to share pictures if you’re interested, hope to hear from you.