A bit about me (everyday life):

I'm 26, 5'10'', 142lbs.

I'm a PhD candidate and part-time instructor in Alberta. I'm extremely ambitious and weird (in a good way, I think :)). Also very interested in history, international politics, world ideologies, literature... and could talk for hours on end about these things - nerdy, I know and am proud of the fact :). I like to have fun with the occasional movie, series, game... I've been trying to get back into some sports; recently tried basketball (turns out I'm 💩 at it) and getting back into table tennis. And I'm currently somewhat obsessed with chess.

Based in Calgary, AB, and don't mind starting online and meeting later. I've done a lot of traveling, so this should be doable wherever you are.

The relationship I'm looking for (SFW):

Although I think the femdom dynamic is essential, it's more important to me to be compatible in terms of normal relationship expectations. As the title says, I'm mainly looking for a serious (long-term) relationship, but I'm also open to shorter-term fun. In terms of age, please be under 33.

I envision any relationship I'm in to be a relationship based on honesty, loyalty, and trust; a relationship which provides stability, companionship, and care. Also, my ideal relationship is one where we can - depending on our mood - hold a conversation for 5 hours or just sit there and say nothing while each of us does their thing. In other words, we're comfortable enough to be ourselves and do not need to pretend.

Things in my life have been looking up lately in multiple ways, and the only thing I feel my life is missing is this kind of relationship.

Kink-wise:

I'm willing to be a sub to any extent of the word as you'd like. I'm OK with a normal relationship built on a slight dom/sub dynamic exclusively in the bedroom, and I'm also OK with 24/7 TPE. It's your decision what level of domination the relationship should be built on.

I've always known (before I even knew what sex actually was, believe it or not) that I'm attracted to strong women and that I like to be controlled. This extended into my adulthood, which is why I'm always excited about any Femdom/GFD/RR aspect that includes giving up control (bondage, chastity, overpowering,......); it's just hot in a very weird way. Physically, I'm OK with any body type except overweight women (sorry 🙁).

This is what I like, but I have never tried anything in real life. This will most probably not change until I meet someone I really click with and believe I'll stay with long-term. This is simply because to me, acting submissive with a woman is sort of like having sex in a normal relationship; I believe in saving it for the right person 😇 I very recently ordered my first chastity device to try it, but I'm still hesitant to to do so without a partner, as it feels like cheating for some reason...

Here are pics of me with face that I took yesterday.

If you think we can match in any way, please don't hesitate to message me. And I would appreciate it if you can also send pics upfront. See you :)