Hi there! I hope your day is going well!

I'm looking for a woman to chat with about life, hopes, interests, kink, and maybe something more if we click.

I am primarily seeking companionship, friendship and trust. While sex and the things associated with it are important to me I do need some kind of emotional connection to be present before I can even begin going down that road with a person.

To that end I would prefer to start slowly and get to know each other first before anything else happens.

I am open to romance, FWB/Play Partners, Monogamy, ENM and Polyamory.

Who I am Seeking

I'd like to meet someone caring and affectionate who likes taking charge when the need arises but isn't afraid to be vulnerable if she needs to be. Someone strong, confident, Funny, Forthright, Compassionate, Nurturing, Encouraging and supportive. But most importantly, she has a solid footing in her own life and is emotionally mature.

Someone who has similar interests to my own or similar enthusiasm for their own hobbies would be lovely. And of course I'm always open to learning about new things if she's willing to show me.

Within a dynamic I'd want her to be the gentle sort who loves driving her partners wild and flooding their brain with lovely chemicals and hormones. Someone kind and loving but with a bit of a subtle and playful mean streak who loves to tease and titillate.

I'd never hope to meet someone who ticks every single one of these boxes. Nobody perfect and I would never ask her to be. All I ask is that you bring your whole self with you when we interact and I promise to do the same for you in return.

About Me, My Hobbies, and What I Bring to the Table

I work as a Network Engineer for a small IT MSP and live in the Tualatin/Sherwood suburb of Portland, OR where I live alone. I am 6ft tall and broad shouldered with green eyes and short brown hair on my face and head. A picture of me for those interested I am also on the bigger side, but I'm working on that (Counting calories and walking 2 miles a day.)

I'm an even-tempered person and I'm easy to get along with. I love being silly and playful and I'm very affectionate and cuddly as well. I'd describe myself as an "Extroverted Introvert" and my primary love languages are Physical Touch and Words of Affirmation. I'm also a decent conversationalist and have been told I'm funny and charming.

I'm very handy and an adept problem solver. I have a working knowledge on how to fix computers and other electronics. I am capable of car repair and maintenance (To an extent) and I am naturally strong. I also keep a clean house and try to foster comfortable environments in the spaces I occupy.

More than anything I love feeling useful and helpful and I try to find ways to embody that as much as I can.

My pastimes include gaming (Video and Tabletop) Tinkering (Fixing computers, radios, or any other electronic devices.), movies/TV(Mostly high-fantasy, comedy or sci-fi. I also enjoy serious drama on occasion.), going on walks, cooking, and going to the beach.

Here is a list of My Kinks and limits if you wish to see them.

Thanks again for reading! If you have any interest or just have questions please let me know!