Hey yall here we go again lmao. I'm a 31 year old Asian woman and fairly new to kink, even though my personality has definitely been on the assertive side my whole life.

I like spending time with my family but I'm not a sociable person otherwise (I can pretend to be a social butterfly though if needed). I also enjoy stand up comedy and podcasts by comedians. I love visiting art galleries and fine art in general. I value self-awareness and independent thought.

Before "where are you from?" questions, I was born in Kazakhstan and left when I was 9 years old. Then I lived in Russia for another 9 years (it was terrible lmao). Then I moved to Canada and stayed there for 12 years before moving back to Kazakhstan to be close with my family. I was feeling lonely cause I didn't have anyone there. Ideally I'd like to meet someone who'd either move to Canada with me or move to Kazakhstan for me (it would need to be a very special person for sure).

Who I'm looking for:

I want a sub who's taken a lot of time to contemplate why he/she is a sub and who is aware that Femdom can be infested with covert misogynists masquerading as subs. I want a sub who will actively defend me in public and who I will actively defend in public as well.

I also want a sub who truly wants to follow my lead. Not just doing chores in a half assed way while horny, but truly trusting me to make good decisions for both of us. Someone who is actually interested in what I have to say. Someone who is curious about my interests and actually wants to partake in my activities.

I want a sub who sees me as a human being first and a Domme second. I want a sub who is proactive at doing things for me and asking me questions, instead of me constantly reminding them to do something.

ATTN:

I'm bisexual so I'm looking for both female and male subs.

My age range is someone my age preferably but from 27 to 40. Feel free to include some SFW pics of yourself, and I'll be willing to do the same. Here is a snippet of me: https://picallow.com/hey-177/

I'm not going to list any kinks actually and I will not respond to messages listing kinks right away.

Neither will I respond to obvious copy and paste messages listing your interests which are completely unrelated to my post.

One sentence horny messages using titles/honorifics will be ignored too.

I'm not a pro Domme, this is a lifestyle and I'd like to meet my special sub one day. Write the word 'Capybara' anywhere in your message to indicate that you've actually read it 😁