Hello! I am in my (very!) late twenties, have a 9-5 job for an engineering company (though in a slightly unusual and vaguely artistic discipline; I'm not a real engineer...), and live alone in central Hampshire near a train station.

I am used to traveling both for work and to see friends and am frequently in London and further afield. My work can be fairly stressful but at least leaves me with clear evenings and weekends; I used to work backstage in the arts which was very different. After work you will find me reading, usually sci-fi and fantasy as well as some non fiction (my to-read pile grows faster than I can read things), playing the occasional video game when I have time, and tinkering with DIY projects and helping friends in the theatre. I like long walks/hikes and walking holidays - last summer I walked around the Isle of Wight in a week and was fortunate not to get rained on once! My spotify account gets a lot of use and I'm almost always listening to music or a podcast in the background.

Physically I am about 5' 8”, always clean shaven, and have shortish brown hair which varies between messy and a bit floppy depending on how long I've left it between cuts and how much I've ran my hands through it recently. I swim 3-4 times a week and have the thighs to prove it... I present in a fairly conventional masculine manner. At work I am confident and have no problems relating to people but socially am usually very shy and quiet, at least at first. I have found that I value being taken and led by the hand both literally and metaphorically; being nurtured and instructed is gently thrilling.

I am looking to meet someone for dating and hopefully more - as this is femdompersonals obviously I am looking ideally for someone dominant or a domme leaning switch as a partner. I think my ideal dynamic is more gentle than harsh, mostly in the bedroom but spilling over outside sometimes into a mild FLR.

About you: I would like to meet someone who lives in the UK, preferably in the south, as I’m not interested in an online-only thing. Flexible on age but probably mid twenties to late thirties. Open to cis and trans women and femme leaning enby folks. Hopefully you share some vanilla interests of course like reading and walking. I suppose I lean more monogamous but may be open to discussing ENM.

Kinks: with previous partners I’ve tried and enjoyed worship, teasing/denial/edging, rope bondage, pegging, service topping, and chastity. Open to trying new things with a partner obviously!

I look forward to hearing from you! Open to chats or messages. Although I haven’t attached a picture here I’ll be happy to send face/SFW pictures quickly if we get talking.