I'm a bit of a neophyte switch and while I've been blessed with some opportunities to sub, I'd love to explore my dominant side with a friend who is willing to give me some feedback.

The emphasis here is friend, I don't engage in kink or have sex with people that I don't like and would like to meet people that I could also be friends with even without a sex/kink component. I'm not mentioning specific kinks here because I'm quite flexible in that regard and I think focusing more on interpersonal connection is a bit more important.

About me:

- have been told I'm cute as fuck. I'm hwp but my thighs are pretty thick haha. I have a bit of an alty aesthetic going on that I'd like to grow

- a huge weirdo, geeks out a lot over literature and biology primarily. It's hard to explain who I am in this format. Let's chat and get a feel for each other instead.

- switchy and I have a wide variety of kink interests. Open to being dominated by another switch as long as I have an opportunity to bully them back?

Values:

- being kind, even to and especially to bugs. When's the last time you picked up trash or gave blood or looked someone in a vulnerable population in the eyes? -- along with this: I'm not interested in helping you cheat on your partner. Very happy to be your friend if you're ethically non-monogamous or otherwise, but I am not interested in hurting anyone so please do not message if you're looking for an affair

- openness - emotionally open people please, I'm a strong communicator and try to be very upfront with my expectations and desires and feedback. I'm also very open to new experiences

- the intellectually curious. I like learning new things, I want to be able to talk to someone who has interests in things beyond watching Netflix and has opinions about the world. Have you ever brought a notebook to debrief after a scene? I have.

- fun. I don't take myself very seriously and neither should you, I make fun of myself constantly and choose options in my life that are maximally pleasurable for myself and other people.

If you have read this, please tell me why this post interested you specifically in what you're looking for as well, in addition to your favorite type of invertebrate and location within socal.

Ta-ta for now.