IN PERSON ONLY

Hello to all you lovely subbies out there! Been feeling the desire to connect and play with a sub so I’m hoping to find someone here. I’m looking for in person only and you must be in Southern California, preference given to those in Orange County, with next choice being San Diego, and third Los Angeles.

My biggest requirements in a sub are that they be leftist in politics, queer/enjoy playing with at least men and women, and ethically non-monogamous! If you’re interested in a dynamic that can develop into a relationship, you need to be childfree as I’m never having children myself and don’t want to date people who are or want to be parents.

Probably my biggest thing is that we be friends outside the bedroom. If it’s all just kink in the dynamic then I lose interest pretty quickly. I want to know what you’re like outside of kink and your sexuality; what makes you tick, your special interests, anything about you that makes you who you are. If we can find shared interests and topics with one another, then it’ll make me appreciate you more as a person. Friendship is a solid foundation and I want to at least build a dynamic from that ground up.

I’m going to keep my kink talk more minimal, because I’m actually here for something long-term, and long-term won’t happen if we don’t get along outside of kink. Please don’t message if you have no experience being a sub or are a “sub” who just wants to top from the bottom (in which case you’re not a sub at all).

I describe myself as a demanding Queen. I know what I want, and I’m comfortable in snapping my fingers and telling you to do it. In my day to day life, I have to be fairly professional, attentive to detail, and collaborate with others, it can be stressful for me. After a long day, I want to be able to unwind and relax and be pampered. I do like to reward a sub, I enjoy giving pleasure and knowing I’ve given someone an orgasm. But make no mistake: I’m the focus and I do not want to be a nurturing caretaker. My limits with a sub include: ABDL, TPE, scat/piss play, blood. For you to be a long-term sub with me, the absolute necessary kinks I require are pegging, forced bi, group play, and exhibitionism. If there’s anything I mentioned that you’re not comfortable with, then I’m not the dom for you.

As for my vanilla side, I love video games and TTRPGs, those are two subjects I can definitely talk for a long awhile about. My short-term goal is to get myself a PC gaming setup so I can finally run Baldur’s Gate 3, and to make gaming easier in general. I play piano and want to learn the ukulele (if you can tune one and give me pointers I’d love that). Crocheting is my next hobby to learn. I like to work with my hands and there’s something about creating a piece of art, even if it’s funky looking, that appeals to me mentally. I’ve recently got into diamond gem art; you’ve probably seen a video of it online. It’s something fun and creative to do while watching a comfort movie. I love to be outdoors when I can and enjoy a variety of outdoor activities. I’m a fairly easygoing person who enjoys good conversations with a cup of tea.

If this post resonates with you, please shoot me a Reddit chat with your age (no one under under 24), location, and a photo or description about what you look like. If I’m interested I’ll send a face photo when I reply. If you enjoyed a particular part of my post, also mention that! Any personal information about you that isn’t kink related is appreciated and will catch my attention. I’ll be able to tell if you haven’t read my post; so if you don’t fit my requirements I’m not interested.

Happy searching!