Hey there,

For a long time now I’ve known that a relationship involving power dynamics is what I crave. Being able to dedicate myself towards someone and having that special connection feels unlike anything else.

About me:

I enjoy cooking, movies, board games, programming, fashion, baking, puzzles, and am always wanting to learn something new (right now that is playing the piano and writing). I would consider myself an optimistic pragmatist and while admittedly it doesn’t hold much weight coming from the person themselves, I would like to think I am a kind, thoughtful person with lots of energy to give. My job is in the tech field and is hybrid, so my schedule is pretty flexible. Besides my vanilla interests, I have also been participating in the NYC scene for a little over a year now, going to both munches and classes. I’ve enjoyed meeting new people and learning so much about myself and about how to practice kink safely.

Physically, I am 5’10”, 130 lbs. I am white with brown hair and blue eyes. Personally, I am open to all types of partners in terms of physical appearance as personality is what I consider paramount. Though, please be of legal age and no older than your 40’s.

Kinks:

Using labels, I would say my primary archetype is a service submissive. Being able to work hard and see the effects of my labor on your quality of life and happiness is such a large motivator for me. I am the type of person who gets a lot pleasure from giving a lot of pleasure. In terms of dynamics, I am open to many types both hardcore and gentle. Though, my ideal would be a mix of both. I take pride in my obedience, and I would not classify myself as a brat. Some of my favorite kinks include body worship, acts of service, praise, light humiliation, tease and denial, bondage, pain, role reversal, pet play, and much more. I’d love to hear yours, and if you have any that I didn’t mention here. My hard limits are scat, blood, findom, blackmail, and permanent modifications.

What I am looking for:

I am looking for something serious, monogamous, and long term. Please be in the NYC metro area. My ideal relationship would involve elements of role reversal, eventually building into elements of TPE & M/s. One where we effortlessly flow through low/medium/high protocol while never having stopped enjoying each others company along the way. I personally appreciate people who are articulate and interesting to talk to. I love picking people’s brains and learning about new world views, and appreciate a partner who is also inquisitive. I am the type of person to prefer to take things slow and am not looking to jump right into kinky play. Personal compatibility is the most important thing to me first and foremost.

If you are interested, send me a Reddit chat or PM. Please include the title and artist of one of your favorite songs somewhere in your opening message so I know you have read everything (if you aren’t a big music listener, feel free to replace music with whatever creative medium you engage with the most).

Thanks so much for reading and I hope your week is off to a good start!