Hi! hope you're doing well!

I'm looking for a woman to talk with about life, hopes, interests, kink, and maybe something more if we click.

I am primarily seeking companionship, friendship, and trust. While sex and things associated with it are important to me I do need some kind of emotional connection before I can even start to go down that road with a person.

To that end, I would prefer to start slowly and get to know each other first and see how things go before anything else happens. And also that any online connections only be at most 3 time zones away from PST. While I appreciate messages from people overseas, making a dynamic work on opposite schedules doesn't seem like it'd work in the long run.

Who I am seeking

Someone caring and affectionate who likes taking charge when the need arises but isn't afraid to be vulnerable if she needs to be. Someone strong, confident, Funny, Forthright, Compassionate, Nurturing, Encouraging and supportive. But most importantly, she has a solid footing in her own life and is emotionally mature.

Someone who has similar interests to my own or similar enthusiasm for their own hobbies is a plus. And of course I'm always open to learning about new things if she's willing to show me.

Within a dynamic I'd want her to be the gentle sort who enjoys taking the lead and loves driving her partners wild. Someone kind and loving but with a bit of a subtle and playful mean streak who loves to tease and titillate.

I'd never hope to meet someone who ticks every single one of these boxes. Nobody is perfect and I would never ask her to be. All I ask is that you bring your whole self with you when we interact and I promise to do the same.

About Me, My Hobbies, and What I Bring to the Table

I work as a Network Engineer for a small IT MSP and live in the Tualatin/Sherwood suburb of Portland, OR where I live alone. I am 6ft tall and broad shouldered with green eyes and short brown hair on my face and head. A picture of me for those interested I am on the bigger side, but I'm working on that actively.

I'm an even-tempered person and I'm easy to get along with. I love being silly and playful and I'm also very affectionate and cuddly. I'd describe myself as an "Extroverted Introvert" and my primary love languages are Physical Touch and Words of Affirmation. I'm also a decent conversationalist and have been told I'm pretty funny and charming.

My pastimes include gaming (Video and Tabletop) Tinkering (Fixing computers, radios, or any other electronic devices.), movies/TV(Mostly high-fantasy, comedy or sci-fi. I also enjoy serious drama on occasion.), going on walks, cooking, and going to the beach.

I'm very handy and an adept problem solver. I have a working knowledge on how to fix computers and other electronics. I am capable of car repair and maintenance (To an extent) and I am naturally strong. I also keep a clean house and try to foster comfortable environments in the spaces I occupy.

Within a dynamic I try to be dutiful and attentive to the needs and desires of my partner before my own. I strive to find new and exciting was to make her feel needed and respected. More than anything I love feeling useful and helpful and I try to find ways to embody that as much as I can.

Kink Details

I'm putting these here purely as a means for potential partners to gauge compatibility. I do not expect nor feel like I am entitled to any of these Nor would I be disappointed if any or all of these weren't included in play. I much prefer to defer to my partner's preferences.

Kinks:

• Gentle Femdom
• Anything you might want to include. (With discussion of course)
• Performing acts of service/submission.
• Performing assigned tasks and adhering to rules set for me.
• Giving worship of any kind.
• Tease/Denial play
• Anal Training and Pegging
• ABF/ANR
• Orgasm Control (including Chastity, JOI/CEI and Edging/Ruined/Forced orgasms)
• Roleplay/Creative Writing as part of submission
• Light Pain/Impact play
• Discrete public play
• Playful Humiliation/name calling and pet names

Limits/Hard No's

• FINDOM
• Extreme Pain
• Extreme/overt public humiliation
• Asphyxiation or Breath play
• Cutting/Scarification or blood play
• Bestiality
• Race Play
• Watersports/Scat/Vomit
• Blackmail

Thanks again for reading! If you have any interest or just have questions please let me know!