Hello, and thanks in advance for reading this through!

Vanilla compatibility and connection first, then kink.

About me… I’m an almost-43 year old woman who is hoping to find amazing chemistry and a connection that builds into a long-term or lifetime relationship. I am a BBW who is 5’9” tall. I am an educated professional and work remotely full-time.

I currently live east of Boulder/north of Denver, but I do plan on leaving Colorado next couple of years… to where? The possibilities are wide. This should be a positive thing if you’re interested in talking with me. I would prefer to meet someone somewhat local, but I’m open to distance for the short-term and with the right person.

My hobbies include off-roading, throwing axes, disc golf, music, travel, photography, being on or in the water, stand-up comedy, and board games. My relationships with family and friends are incredibly important to me, as are my two pups. I enjoy a balance of time on my own as well as time with a partner so I would appreciate if you have some overlap with these things and have some interests of your own. I also enjoy teaching and learning from each other and would happily explore new shared interests.

About you… You are in your mid-30’s to 40’s and are both emotionally intelligent and mature. You have your own career, are financially stable, and seek an easygoing, low drama relationship that is full of laughter and fun. You don’t want any/more kids. You have a lust for adventure, loads of integrity, have a good sense of humor, and you practice loving yet open communication.

Above all, most important to me is that connection. That being said, I do have -preferences- for a good smile, a warm face, fit or dad bod, taller than me, a grabbable ass and thighs, and short but full beards.

On the kink side…

I am a monogamist and a demi sapio switch. I lean dominant, save that man who is exceptional at drawing out my submission, in which case I may fall closer to a 50/50 switch.

I am looking for: - bedroom-only or - some variation of an FLR with - a switch or - a sub who is comfortable topping consistently

First and foremost I am an experimentalist. You should be, too. I prefer sensual and gentle dominance, perhaps with a primal touch. To an extent and where possible, I enjoy being on both the giving and receiving ends of: restraint, sensory play, impact, edging, voyeurism/exhibitionism, and role play. I enjoy or am curious about a number of other things.

I believe there is a difference between having expectations and being demanding. I am soft, kind, and well-mannered with expectations when dominant, and I respond well to the same style of dominance.

I am not in a rush to be in a relationship, but I am only open to long-term monogamous potential. I am not interested in poly, enm, or any form of casual play, fwb, short-term only, or the like.

If you feel we’re a potential fit on vanilla compatibility and some of my kink has piqued your interest, please do reach out! I’d love to chat and see if there’s chemistry.

When you message me, I’d like to first know: your age, what area you’re in, your role and whether you have experience in it, and what made you feel like we might hit it off?