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21 [NB4A] Submissive looking for Dominant Monogamous LTR in #NJ or #Online
Author Summary
BobiGoga is a non-binary person age 21 looking for anyone in New Jersey
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Age: 21
Height: 5'7"
Gender: Genderfluid (the terms I mesh with the most are Nebulagender / Slimegender)
Sexuality: I'm pansexual, demisexual, and monogamous with a femme lean (for me this means little to no interest in men).
Appearance: dark brown skin, chubby, masc at current. I am AMAB and have started to go through HRT, if that will be a possible problem. I very much fit the stereotypical "bear" look at current. I have a beard, body hair, and a short fro.
Interests: Anime & Manga(JJK, Naruto, HxH, JJBA, Dragon Ball), Games(Indie, Anything on the Switch, Oldies), TTRPGs, bunnies (animals in general honestly), ASMR

A General About Me
I'm a huge Nerd, but typically don't rush to talk about it as I tend to steamroll people when talking about my interests. I enjoy nonverbal communication, and can sometimes use that in favor of words. I'm clingy, I don't consider that a good thing, but can't deny it. As a person I strive to always improve or better myself in some way. I enjoy learning, and tend to spend any amount of free time I have towards understanding myself or the world around me a bit better. I try to bring this understanding to any relationships.

What I Bring
When it comes to a relationship I try to be attentive, caring, and honest. I make it a point to try to learn about my partner and work with them to create a happy and stable relationship. I value communication and think talking, even about nonsense, is very important.

What I'm Looking For
I'd Ike to start with online chatting at first as I'm a bit shy, but I'm looking for a proper long-term relationship and would hope to eventually move to in-person. Please only message me if you're 19 and looking for a genuine submissive. As for what I look for in a partner, assertiveness and protectiveness are attractive to me. However, time, energy, and effort are the most important factors to me. I believe most things can be worked on and improved upon if we each have these at minimum. When it comes to looks, tomboys and/or muscles drive me absolutely feral, but to me compatibility is far more than base attraction.

Things I Feel Should be Shared
I lean bottom as topping can make me dysphoric, and tend to be a bit bratty / eager to please. I don't think brattyness for me is the same as what is typical. I enjoy teasing and tricking my dominant, but ultimately only act a brat due to a want for attention, and would hate going to the point of actually angering or disrespecting a partner. My style of bratting leans towards teasing and playing as much as I can. I like attempting to subvert the rules and being punished for it. I'm also a bit new to BDSM, but pay tons of attention to the community.
Kinks: feminization, master/servant, primal(prey), worship, praise, anal, pegging, bratty submission, spanking, impact play, training, petplay, collaring, chastity, degradation, TPE, marking, FLR, chastity, MD/Lb
Hard lines: scat, watersports, spitting, knifeplay, serious/permanent injury, blood, findom, exhibition

If you read through and are genuinely interested plz begin your DM with an emoji and a little about you. Feel free to DM me just to ask more questions as I feel this post isn't perfect due to my inexperience. If you read through and are apprehensive, feel free to message anyway. I'll take the time to honestly respond to and answer any DMs. Thanks for taking the time to read this, be well.

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