Hey there! Just so you know, I am NOT looking for something casual. Please don't talk to me if you plan to bail eventually. Though I want to say that it's never a commitment the moment you message me, if we were made to just be friends/nothing more so be it. Ideally, I'm looking for my partner for life, but let's take it one step at a time for now haha. Anyways, here's some things about me.

Physical: Chinese/Viet 5'11'', black hair leaning towards medium-long hair (for a guy at least), I usually let it grow out, mostly because I don't get too bothered by it. It's long for a guy but not LONG long, usually I then get it cut it down to a more shorter/medium length. I have brown eyes, glasses, with an average weight profile (not skinny, not really fat).

Personality: I think if you had to describe my personality very simply, I'd say I'm like a loyal, affectionate, energetic, but insecure puppy... but if you'd like a more detailed explanation. I'm an ESFP (16 personalities); I'm an extremely expressive and at times energetic person (and other times a smol and sleepy litol guy). I'm definitely a more feminine guy in relativity to other guys. I'm also ... nerdy? geeky? both? I'm the type of guy to go off on random tangents about like..... the things I find interesting about random stuff and I'm known for passionate rants- generally I'm not for negativity but I still get frustrated. I'd like to think that I'm a relatively kind and understanding person, and I (at least as far as I can discern) have good intent when it comes to life. I want good for the people I care about, and I want to be there for my friends both in good and bad times, and all that stuff. I for the most part have a low self esteem (though I've been doing much better with therapy) and generally I have soft boy vibes. One thing peculiar about me is that I'm very understanding, sometimes to a fault (at least that's what some people say). I am the very opposite of judgmental and I try to understand people, the reason being I used to feel very misunderstood, and I never want anybody to feel the way I did. While I wouldn't consider myself emotionally unstable, I do think it's important to note that I'm relatively emotional for a guy, If you see that as a negative or something you want to avoid, then I'm probably not the one for you.

Hobbies/interests: I'll keep this relatively short and you can find out more by talking to me, but things I like include the usual gaming/anime/music/etc to other nerdy shit like custom mechanical keyboards and honestly an interest in fashion. I'm sure there's more but I can't think of them on the top of my head... I'm relatively curious and interested in learning new things.

Kink/Femdom part: Yeah this IS r/femdompersonals so I'll explain some more about that profile on me. I'm more of a gentle femdom person on average (I'm kind've a crybaby) but I still enjoy some of the regular & rougher femdom stuff. My main love languages are probably words of affirmation, physical touch, and maybe quality time as a runner-up. So you know, I'm not looking for a power dynamic, I don't mind the occasional ones for fun but generally I hope we both view each other respectfully and as equals. Things that are boundaries that I won't cross or at least I don't think I'm interested include: pegging, most forms/all(?) of humiliation/degradation, physical pain, bodily fluid play(???). etc

A warning/disclaimer that I feel the need to disclose is that I am progressing (relatively) slow in life. I'm 23, I've only worked one job, and currently, I'm living with my mom. I am very aware of this and honestly feel shameful for this, but I also understand people move at different paces in life and that it's okay I'm not farther ahead. Therefore I am currently unemployed, and I'm still uncertain of my future (in terms of career). One of my main goals in my life right now is to gain independence (both in the sense of financially and general independence). Currently, I'm taking smaller steps until I'm ready to take bigger ones.

Thank you for reading all of this, if you have any questions about anything at all please don't hesitate to message me! Even the questions you think are "weird" I promise I won't think they are. Regardless whether it's me or not, have a lovely rest of your day and/or good luck on your search.