I'm a 39-year old cis woman domme located on the East Coast of the US looking for my pet ❤️

About me:

I'm a fairly extroverted person with lots of hobbies - I love all kinds of crafts and art and do a lot of home improvement projects and gardening as well. I also love to read - the last two books I finished were The Oleander Sword by Tasha Suri and End Times by Peter Turchin.

I have an academic background in history and I'd say I just love learning in general, whether that's something more abstract, like about early Christian heresies (Donatists ftw) or something practical like how to replace an outlet.

I work at a progressive non-profit and social issues are really important to me - I'd say I'm a leftist for whatever that's worth in the American context.

Appearance wise I'm 5'3" and on the more curvy / larger side. The celebrity I most closely resemble body-type and complexion-wise is Dascha Polanco if you want to get an idea. I love makeup and fashion and am pretty high femme in my presentation.

What I'm looking for:

I'm looking for a service-oriented sub between 25-45 to form an ongoing connection that goes beyond just kink. I'm open to all genders but tend to be most attracted to people who present masc or androgynous.

I'd like to meet someone who's got a sweet, loyal, and kind personality. Enthusiastic golden retriever types are my favorite 🥰 Someone who puts their domme's needs first is essential.

I also want someone who is a good conversationalist - regardless of where this goes in the future any connection is going to to be primarily online at the start so being engaging over text and/ or voice calls is important. It would be great if you shared some of my interests as well.

In my ideal world I'd want a relationship with someone who would be able to meet up in person at least occasionally, but I'm open to any location as long as your time zone isn't so far off that it makes consistent communication difficult.

My femdom style:

I'm fairly experienced - I've been interested in femdom most of my adult life and have had a couple of serious relationships where the dynamic played a significant part.

I lean more on the gentle side and tease and denial / orgasm control and receiving body worship are probably my favorite elements. I also like pegging and using light impact on occasion. I've also been a keyholder in the past a few times which I've enjoyed.

Most of my experience is IRL so translating all of this to an online dynamic is definitely something I want help in exploring.

Next steps:

If you think you're a good fit please send a (hopefully charming and thoughtful) message to me here on reddit. Attraction is very important to me so I'd like you to be comfortable with sharing a SFW picture early on, and I'm happy to reciprocate.