I have met some pretty wonderful folks on here so I'm back with hopes to connect with someone special.

SFW (ish) photos here

What I'm Seeking
I am an experienced dominant lady seeking a self-aware, articulate submissive to build a lifelong female-led relationship. You know that buzzy feeling when your phone lights up with their name or feeling your stomach turn over when they walk into a room - that's what I'm after. Location isn't critical but I am dating intending to find a serious partner, so even if we start online I expect to meet in person sooner rather than later.

As things get off the ground, I will want to hear your voice daily. I will want to see you often and touch you more. When I'm really taken with you I get obsessive and then demanding while still prioritizing kindness and nurturing.

My kinks
I have a kink list as long as my arm and they fall in and out of rotation but my favorites tend to involve role reversal, control, humiliation, and sadism. My favorite acts include body worship, erotic breastfeeding, crossdressing (though less into sissification these days), orgasm control/tease and denial and chastity, lifestyle control, painplay (particularly cbt and spanking), pegging, and a whole lot more. I enjoy both sexual and non-sexual expressions of kink. I value sacrifice but I also enjoy a partner who feels at home within their desire to submit and embraces my guidance and training.

More about me
Outside of kink, I am a voluptuous bisexual black woman in my mid 30's. I have a few extra pounds I'm working on losing and I'm discovering more movement-focused hobbies. I have a career I love and takes up a fair amount of my time. In my free time, I am an avid reader, passionate about live music and cultural experiences. I have never met a musical comedy I didn't love, I am learning to sew and spend way too much time binging true crime docs.

Who I am looking for
I am looking for a smart, funny, charmer /- my age by six years whose kinks and vanilla interests align with my own. I would love if you had most of your life together and can regulate your emotions. I am bi and both cis and trans folks are welcome to reach out. I am attracted to masculine men though I have a soft spot for the clingy types, even if it takes a while to unlock that particular character trait. I value honesty and communication above all else. I am looking for someone confident in their desire to submit to another. I tend to pour a lot of myself into my relationships so I am looking for someone who has the time and energy to match my contribution. I have been happy in both monogamous and polyamorous relationship styles. I am not likely to interact with anyone 26 and under, married or attached looking without the knowledge of your partner, or looking for strictly Ds dynamic.

TL;DR
Experienced bisexual domme seeks kinky, cling, and sweet submissive gent for new sexy adventures, marriage and (maybe) kiddos.