Hello there 💕 I'm located in North Seattle and am looking for a sub that's local to the area. I'm 5'5, average/little extra weight, Asian, DDF, partnered poly, and excited to add someone to my very short list of people that I would endlessly adore and dote on. I've had a few short term subs but I'm nowhere near an "experienced" domme and would like to hone into my skills and abilities. I'm a giver by nature, and coupled with my naturally dominant personality I've come to realize that femdom is the perfect blend of a lifestyle that I'm familiar with and a relationship I'd like to further explore.

To get the requirements out of the way, I am looking for a sub that's between the ages of 21 - 45, DDF (weed is okay), can host and drive to my place (although I live in a smaller studio apartment), no kids, preferably no pets since I'm allergic, within an hour drive of Seattle, and is open to the fact that I have a partner. I may consider other subs that live farther away/out of state but that's only if we click and you're willing to travel or accommodate. I'm fiercely loyal to my loved ones and I'm genuinely looking for a long term relationship so please don't message me if you're not respectful of dommes and only view them as kink dispensers. I don't really have a "type" but attraction is important to me and so is being able to hold a conversation. Doesn't matter if you're a femboy, transitioning, very femme, or a more masc presenting, as long as our kinks and interests align I'm all for you!

My kinks: orgasm control/denial, teasing/edging, impact play, bondage, public sex, foot worship, massages, role play, rough sex, feminization, group play, anal training, chastity, gentle femdom, breath play, sensory deprivation, praise, collaring, and treating you like my little dress up doll.

Kinks I'd like to explore further: pegging, tpe, pet play, free use, degradation/humiliation, fear play, impact/whips, slave duties/training, sissyfication, restraining for long periods of time, and I'm open to know what your kinks are too!

I don't have a lot of hard limits besides scat and excessive blood. I'm sure we'll figure things out as we go and I don't require my subs to be perfectly aligned with my interests so let me know what your limits are!

I'm a very caring and affectionate person, a blend of physical touch, quality time, and acts of service is my love language. I love trying out new restaurants, taking long walks at the park, discovering new music, cooking, going to theaters, and snuggling up inside while watching shows or documentaries. I'd love to meet a service sub who loves to do as they're told, is financially independent to do sweet things for me like getting me flowers or ingredients to cook dinner, has a place of their own with the ability to have guests over (or book a hotel), is secure in their own femininity/masculinity, treats everyone with utmost respect and kindness, and loves to make people laugh.

If you've read everything up to this point, thank you, for taking the time. Send me a chat (no private message) with a face picture, your ASL, what your kinks are, and a song that you'd like to share with me in order for me to get to know you better. I absolutely will not respond if you don't send a chat with my listed requirements, I hate responding to low effort messages and it just clearly indicates that you're not serious about your inquiry. I'm here to find someone who will take the time to put in the effort as I have in this post and your sincerity should accurately be reflected within your introductory message. Hope to hear from you all soon!