Bismillah, Discover Harmony in a FLR with a Devout Muslim Dominant

Assalaamu Alaikum/Greetings of Peace to those seeking a Nikah with a compatible person, let us be blunt, it is impossible to meet someone through a matchmaker or approach the opposite gender to inquire if they are interested in a Female-Led-Relationship. The sad fact is, you would dread causing offense or being labelled a deviant within our community.

Under these circumstances, the only option is to take a risk, inshallah khair! I will introduce myself: my profile name is Lady Abyss - Lady for wanting to signal that I need to be treated with decency, courtesy, and respect and Abyss is short for my ancestry. Inshallah, please address me as either A or Lady Abyss, thank you in advance!

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About Me

I am a 39-year-old devout Muslim woman, tough yet gentle, and my ideal match would be a devoted submissive, a gentleman who embraces Islam and values the principles of a Female-Led-Relationship (FLR).

I am a strong-willed, reserved, firm, compassionate, and protective woman who prays to continue to find strength in my iman. Inshallah, I pray to stay on a path where I can get closer to Allah (SwT), observe the five pillars of Islam, and try my best to have my good deeds outweigh my bad deeds.

I would describe my physical appearance as having: melanated skin, black/grey hair, brown eyes, height of 165cm, hourglass figure (weight of 211 pounds), birthmarks (MANY moles/dark spots - think Trills from Star Trek, etc.), and lifemarks (scars/acne/stretchmarks/smile lines, etc.). Also, I wear corrective lenses and rarely wear makeup.

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What I Seek

Inshallah, I pray to find a devoted submissive who has respect for the teachings of Islam and is conscious that it is possible to explore dominance and submission while also remaining committed to Islam. My preferred age range would be between 29 years old to 50 years old.

My ideal match would lead us when it comes to our deen and salaat. Inshallah, I will take over when it comes to our relationship/home. Everything else we would need to discuss; however, please note that I would prefer a higher level FLR.

The character traits that I find beautiful, mashallah, someone who is: considerate, charitable, optimistic, concerned about others, conflict avoidant, open to compromise, willing to enhance what I am attracted to physically, emotionally mature, health conscious, knowledge seeker, and financially responsible/independent.

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Dealmakers:

* Communicate with me in a respectful and timely manner

* Enjoy performing domestic acts of service such as cooking and cleaning

* Be kind, proactive, responsible, reliable, and safety conscious

* Willing to live in a pet-free home since I have severe allergies

* Family-oriented and keen to spend fun quality time together especially outdoors

* Share your ideal D.E.W. date timeline (how many months from dating to engagement to wedding/Nikah – I would like to get an idea if our timelines match)

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Dealbreakers:

* Does not care about religion

* Poor communication

* Untrustworthy, reckless, condescending, entitled, vulgar, abusive, and angers easily

* Judgmental of others based on their faith, identity, status, and wealth

* Unable to take accountability

* Consumed with their online activity (social media, gaming, etc.)

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Our FLR with Islamic Values

Inshallah, my dream is to have a monogamous Female-Led Relationship where we both respect the boundaries set by our deen. Possibly, impact play, as a form of discipline with an awareness that we mutually agreed for me to correct your behaviour in an ethical manner to motivate you to improve. We would both consent to a power exchange dynamic and ensure that we treat each other with love and mercy.

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How to Connect

If you are out there, my dream suitor/future - fiancé/husband/best friend/submissive/prey/little spoon/pet, please take a risk as well and reach out with a respectful and well considered response, first impressions matter.

Inshallah, please introduce yourself by sharing with me your understanding of Islam, your commitment to its pillars, and your openness to exploring submission within the context of our faith.

Write the word tidy in the subject field of your response. Please confirm your faith/sect, age, location, and a SFW picture (outdoor pictures are great but I would be more impressed with a picture that highlights your attention to detail – you next to something that you cleaned, you meal prepping or cooking, you and some safety gear such as a first aid kit, etc.). Also, please read these articles and let me know your thoughts.

https://www.harpersbazaar.com/culture/features/a12063822/emotional-labor-gender-equality/

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/weaponized-incompetence-women\_l\_61e71983e4b0d8b665717814

I have difficulty reading huge blocks of text without formatting, please use spaces in between your paragraphs.

Barakallahu feek, A

My profile has my full ad and two SFW pictures (a verification picture as well as two safety items that are saved in my hope chest for my future spouse, inshallah.)