Are you the man of my daydreams?

30F, Domme, happily partnered in the real world.

Seeking a stress relief toy boy to keep me company at odd times, worship me, and enhance my solo sex.

I would love to wax poetic about what it would be like to be together in physical space, and soak up your longing. I want you to wistfully agree that it could never work in real life, even though you dream about me every night.

You should be envious of my lover, and happy that I'm pleasured so well!

The qualities I'm looking for:

Nearby or chronically online, 25 or older, clingy, submissive, creative, a compulsive question-asker, flexible, easy going, enthusiastic, sensitive, imaginative, affectionate, talkative, masochistic, escapist tendencies. I love people who actively make music.

Disqualifiers... (Please don't message if any apply to you.)

Attached men: If you have someone, I am not interested.

A long wait for voice- it's how I'll know if you'd make a good toy! Why waste time if I like what you wrote?

Male doms: Respectfully, I can't imagine.

Switches: The one who is "for me" always knew he was meant to kneel. If you identify as a switch, I am not interested. I don't care if you did it "as a favor to an ex", or "because it was expected". If you identify as a switch, it's a no.

Sissies of any kind.

Vanilla-until-right-now types: I'm not here to facilitate your personal exploration or help you experiment with submission.

I also eschew: poor communicators, anyone under 25, unmanaged/unaddressed mental illness (the struggle is real, but I am not a licensed therapist!), findom (unless...👀🖤😘), talking politics, argumentative, pedantic, or bratty subs.

Communications.... You must be available to text, at least a bit,during the day (I may not respond, as I work full time, but I love to receive ♡). I like to voice in the evening, EST. Availability is important to me; I intend to speak with you almost daily. If your schedule won't allow you to be there when I want you, it is a non-starter.

Themes I like: Unrequited love, forbidden pairings, D/s lifestyle, transactional sex/love, intensity, desperation, obsession, corruption, bargaining, degradation/redemption, cuckolding, romance.

Note: When I express an interest in cuckolding, I'm talking about my pleasure coming first, regardless of the submissive's sexual prowess or lack thereof, and his willingness to shelve his ego and focus on getting me what I need.

I am NOT willing to engage with the dick-obsessed, often racist, misogynistic, "no homo" sexual scenario that's represented in pornography! If you're obsessed with the fantasy of servicing another man, go find him, and leave me out of it!

Don't talk to me as if that's something I expect.🫠

Specific kinks: vary by dynamic. I feel that "lovey" and "cruel" can exist very comfortably together. I am a physical and emotional sadist, and I love a willing subject.

Lifestyle D/s, impact, breath, human object, denial, begging (!!!), foot/body worship, predator/prey, ownership, toys,tasks, soft femdom, transforming a sub's appearance/behavior/voice/posture.

Impossible kinks🖤: Size play, all things occult/supernatural.

Hard limits: Sissies/crossdressing/feminization, watersports, switching, illegal/unethical, forced bi. I'm also not concerned with what anyone has in their ass at any given time.🤷🏽‍♀️

Genre play: I appreciate those with some nerdy interests, because it means they can better indulge my impossible kinks. I need someone who can join me wherever I want to go... even when I'm in the mood to be a hobbit hotwife, salacious succubus, or witch of the wood.

If you'd like to feel adored and useful, if you enjoy pining, or placing your Domme on a pedestal, I really look forward to hearing from you.

When you write, tell me: Your age, location, field of study, how you came to identify yourself as submissive, and how you relate to the dynamic described here. What in this post resonated with you? Why do you want what I want? Have you been waiting for me?

Come lavish me with attention. Sink into the warmth of my voice, and do as I ask. I love "yes".

🖤