Hello there! As said in the title, I'm searching for a domme (or switch) partner for kinky LTR! I am open to something a little more casual and slow to start, like a kinky fwb, but I would like to eventually get towards a LTR. Ideally for something more limited to the bedroom, as I would not like to bleed to far into other aspects of my life, but behind closed doors is still fine.

I am a fairly private person, but I will divulge what's underneath the shy introverted exterior: kind-hearted, empathetic and very much looking out for others (with the occasional terrible pun, you'll hate me for them 😉). If I were to put labels on, I'd consider myself somewhat of a demi/sapio-sexual, but that's being quite specific. I enjoy a good break away and cuddle with a nice book or movie too. Not exactly a party animal, but wouldn't mind at least trying out a local munch if I went with someone I trusted. Somewhat shorter in stature, but make up for it with a cheeky, bratty smile. Here's a picture for reference, face pictures can be exchanged when we verify!

Ideally, I'm looking for a domme/switch that's around my age (22-32ish) that's in the London area (I'm SE London myself), though being a bit farther out in the UK/Europe is still suitable if there's still a spark (or potentially even further abroad if things are REALLY good!). I'd like to be able to be friends and communicate with my partner outside of kink; someone that I can hang out at museums with, watch bad movies, play video games together if we remove the concept of D/s - an equal outside the bedroom.

Mainly looking for a more patient, gentle domme that helps push and tease the kink out. Same applies to switches, since I have an interest in developing my rigging skills, but I'm not quite so cut out for being a full dom. If you're a novice as well, that's great! Only dealbreaker is if you're married or in a committed relationship.

Kink-wise, I'll admit I'm looking to try out more bondage (both light and heavy), sensory deprivation, praise, pegging and a couple others that I haven't fully explored yet. If you're wondering if I have an interest in something not listed here, let me know! There are some things I am looking to explore more, but I'd rather not list them here. As for limits, it's mainly bodily fluids and ABDL that are the major turn-offs, as well as anything overtly public.

DM me here on Reddit and we can move our conversation somewhere easier after a few messages (Telegram/Discord/etc.) Just as a bit of verification you've read this fully (and you're not a bot), let me know how you got yourself twisted up in this scene. Or for a more SFW ice breaker, what's the latest movie/TV series/youtube vid you watched? Won't be answering any that just say "submit" or "prove your loyalty", I'm a person, not a kink dispenser. Can exchange face pics and we'll verify after a few messages too once we've established connection.

Hope to hear from some of you soon!