Hi all! I've debated posting for a while now and thought it's at least worth a shot. I don't think I'll ever find what I'm looking for on the typical tinder/hinge apps. Sorry if this is long but I'll try to include a tldr at the end, I hope you stick around to read all of this because I promise I'm worth it!

So I start with the about me so you can decide if I'm even your type before wasting your time reading the rest of this.

About me; Like in the title, I'm a switch, but I'd like to find myself in more of a submissive role. I'm strong, capable, and experienced and for that I've always been the dom in every relationship and though I truly enjoy it and feel like I'm able to encompass the role well, I want to lean sub in the long term with the ability to switch if we desire but. Appearance wise I get referred to as Tarzan quite a lot. I've got long curly hair and brown skin like my avi and typically I'm clean shaven but sometimes I let it grow, just depends on my mood but I've never been a fan of thick, full facial hair on myself. I just don't like how it feels I guess. I'm 6'3" and 205lbs, I've been going to the gym for years and it's something I really enjoy and my both my mass and body composition fluctuate based on my training phase. I'm happy to share pictures once we've built some rapport. I also have plenty of tattoos and could be considered " alternative" by some but I do not identify with that label. I'm sweet and thoughtful and I love to cook for my friends and loved one's. I was raised by my grandmother so you know I'm an amazing cook 😘 I'm Indian tho so I hope you like spicy food but I also make really good Italian if that's not your thing. I've lived in a few different places and speak multiple languages but I do still have an American accent due to having been a military brat. My sense of style ranges from formal wear to statement pieces to dadcore to preppy. My style depends on my mood and the vibe but all this is to say, I know how to dress well and I enjoy it. I work in science - microbiology and biotech/engineering - and am just about to graduate from my master's program but I also have a deep love and appreciation for philosophy and art. I also have a very large and very sweet husky that loves to go on adventures with me but is also fully content cuddling up and watching shows all day (he's snoring next to me as I type this haha). Oh I'm also bi/pan so I'm open to other genders but right now what I'm mostly looking for is a FLR. I am single though I do enjoy dating non-monogamously. I am ok with a more closed relationship as I want to find my person, a partner that I am devoted to and that is devoted to me. But I would still like to be able to be with other partners, either with you or on my own. All while we respect each other's boundaries while doing so and have each other as our No. 1 priority.

About you; Preferably a dom/domme leaning switch whose interest was piqued reading the above? Lol I'm looking for my person, someone that I can be best friends with that will also tie me down and treat me like their property. Someone looking to build intimacy and grow. Someone to travel and share all the wonderful experiences life has to offer. Be intelligent, driven, and capable, but unafraid to turn to others for help. I have amazing friendships and I'd like you to have your own as well. I want someone that cares about their health like I do but not so much that they limit their joy. Like having goals and doing the things you need to do to achieve them is amazing and sexy as all hell, but if you can't allow yourself to enjoy the decadence of life then I am not for you. It's all about balance. When it comes to looks, I don't really have a type. Short, tall, blonde, brunette, doesn't really matter to me. I think attractive people are attractive and there's no one feature that is going to make or break it and looks in and of itself is by no means the most important factor. Just be healthy and take care of yourself.

We can talk more about kinks once we've built some rapport as I'm looking for a partner above all else so I think starting with genuine interest in getting to know one another should come before things get sexual. However, I also don't want to waste both of our time just to find out we are fundamentally incompatible so though I am receptive to most things, I will list what I consider my hard limits below and you can assume I'll at least entertain anything else. These include; blood, causing/receiving permanent damage, degredation or humiliation of any kind, animals, anything illegal, incest, cbt, feminization.

tldr; man looks for love

I think I'm going to cut it here, this is getting pretty long and I don't know how many people would even be will to read this far. If you did, Hi 🫰🏾 and if you found any of this compelling, shoot me a thoughtful message with a description of yourself and what you want/like and include a random fact or talking point about yourself. I'm looking for something that would eventually lead to being in person so being in or close to Colorado would be amazing but not a deal breaker if we can work out regular visits. Until then, I enjoy phone/videocalls but we can start with texts before verifying. If you're bold and open with a verification I'll follow suit. Thank you, this has been my Ted Talk.