About me: You may call me Miss Ri. I’m a semi-introverted, very open-minded 32 year old living in Maryland. I’m a banker and have been in banking for 5 years. I’m a bit nerdy and I love to write and play video games in my spare time. I’m super into mythology, fantasy, and horror. I’ve recently gotten into being healthier and I love hiking. I also have two dogs that help keep me active. They’re both as cute as me.

Speaking of my appearance: I am black, 5’8”, and chubby/curvy. I have brown eyes and dark hair, but my hair changes all the time and sometimes drastically lol. I’m a bit of a girly-girl and love dressing up, putting on makeup, doing my har, etc. But obviously when I’m home I’m very laid back (and prefer to be naked).

My domination style and kinks: I consider myself strict but gentle. I love being sweet and doting to my subs and partners when they’re being good. I also love giving and receiving support, attention, and affection. I prefer to use teasing and denial as punishments rather than pain. I’m not a huge fan of heavy degradation but I do enjoy humiliation. I also absolutely LOVE orgasm control/denial. I actually adore the idea of completely controlling someone, especially sexually, but I want to build up to that. I’m also fond of long term edging, small penis humiliation/appreciation, premature ejaculation, freeuse, chastity, and more. I am a very kinky person in general but I don’t want our dynamic to be solely sexual. I would like to get to know my sub as a person first before we deep-dive into talking about kinks, and I also want them to get to know me outside of what turns them on. If you’re only looking for someone to get off with or sext all the time, I’m not going to be her.

I am looking for: A genuine male sub that I can build a connection with and eventually own. I would like you to be in your mid-twenties or older. The older the better. Service subs preferable. I would also prefer it if you lived in the US on the east coast close to Maryland, but exceptions can be made if we click. I have a job and steady income and I expect you to as well. I’m not a sugar-momma and I’m not here to financially support you. I don't tolerate brats too much but I do love submissive men that can think and act for themselves and have their own thoughts and opinions. I value great communication skills and honesty. Last, but not least, I gravitate to subs that actually make an effort in their interactions with me.

Some hard limits: I’m not into poly or sharing my subs with other doms. Period. I’m not into raceplay, bloodplay, scat, extreme age regression, diapers, or heavy degradation. I’m interested in growing more into my dominant role with you, but I am not willing to be molded into the domme you want me to be.

Roleplaying is a soft limit because while it can be hot, its silly to me sometimes.
If you think we will be a good fit for each other, send me a message introducing yourself. Include your favorite color if you reached the end 😊