About Me

• 30M from Denver, CO
• SFW Picture - I will share NSFW picture privately if you would like
• 5'11", 190 lbs, fit but not a body-builder. I have long hair if that's important to you.

Important info, I'm married in an ENM relationship. My wife is also super submissive and we've had shared dynamics with the same domme in the past, if that is something you might be interested in.

I'm a super detailed and focused person and dedicate a lot of energy to anything I feel worth doing. I'm really in to food science/cooking/baking and I love to spam pictures of the things I make. In to pretty nerdy media like cozy (think Nintendo games) video games, fantasy/sci-fi books/movies, true crime stuff, anime, etc. I also love tech stuff and home automation/coding/AI projects (I'll talk you to death about my home server and future plans for it). I like TTRPGs/D&D though haven't had a consistent group since I moved last year. I enjoy going to the gym 2x a week and going for 1-3 mile runs with my dog 2x a week (not a fitness freak but its imporant to me).

Three goals I have for 2024 are to read 10 books, run a 5k, and build a really nice/detailed home security system.

What I'm looking for

• Between 25-35
• Be in the US or consistently available in US timezones
• Wants to have voice/video calls and enjoy sending/receiving pictures often. Purely text relationships aren't for me.
• Reasonably fit and enjoys physical activities even if its not specifically working out
• Is more nuturing and sweet than sadistic, but knows when strictness/punishment is needed

My ideal dynamic is one that's built on a healthy base of mutual friendship and trust. A weekly scheduled meetup, and then no real communication until the next week, is not a relationship I want. Obviously I want a sexual aspect, but I also want to share our interests together. Read a book/watch a show with me and then lets discuss it. Teach me about a hobby I know nothing about and let me engage in it with you. Talk to each other about our shitty days at work and offer mutual support when the other needs it. I'm more into gentle femdom with a focus on pleasing my domme, both sexually and non sexually. A woman who knows what she wants/needs and isn't afraid to verbalize or take that makes me melt. Obedience is earned from me, but once it has been earned being given a task/instruction/command and understanding that its not a request is a major turn on for me.

Kinks/Preferences

• My favorite kinks include orgasm control (not full chastity), power exchange/tasks, body worship, anal (I have some, but not much, experience), light humiliation, light impact play (think OTK spanking)

In my past experiences, I've found that I very much grow to love my partner's kinks. If you get off on something that I don't explicitly list as a limit, not only will I be eager/willing to try it but I'm sure that I'll find that I'm very in to it.

• Kinks I enjoy but aren't necessary - rope play/bdsm, wax play, choking/face slapping, light watersports/bladder control, feminization (especially doing my hair)
• Hard limits - full chastity, sounding, extreme pain/CBT, blood/permanant marks, scat

I've had a relationship with one in person domme and one online domme in the past, maybe totalling a year of experience. As far as toys/hardware, I have a set of butt plugs, two 20' nylon ropes, and a couple pairs of panties.

I would prefer to only talk via reddit chat/PM for a few messages, please be willing to verify yourself early on. Discord is my preferred platform after a basic level of trust is built, but I'm open to other platforms.