Are you an older man (age 49-59) who lurks here, waiting for a domme to appeal to your age group? This post may be for you.

My kinks and turn-ons

• male chastity
• age gap (obviously)
• face sitting
• a man who genuinely loves, enjoys, and fantasizes about eating pussy
• cross dressing
• pegging/prostate stimulation
• gentle femdom      I'm not really into impact play. Physical stimulation, like light scratching or playful occasional flicking, sure. I can get into that. However, ball busting? - That sounds concerning and exhausting and I much rather edge you and ruin your orgasm. That sounds more fun to me.
• praise kink (Eg "you're such a good boy")      I can get into light humiliation (Eg "you like that because you're such a pervert") but prefer to  keep dialogue overall positive and praising. <br>
• gender fluidity (Eg you'd be open to role play as my cute girlfriend)
• a sense of humor

Limits

• scat, pee, blood, race play, anything illegal

My turn-offs

• being called "mommy"      "Mami"? Sure, I can get into that. "Mommy"? Hell no. I never before empathized with men who don't like being called "daddy" until I was called "mommy". And I never wanted to feel that empathy.
• shoe licking      The idea of putting a dirty shoe to one's mouth is way more "wincing" than "panty-dropping" for me.
• shoe fetishism    If you have a foot fetish YOU'RE WELCOME! - I was blessed in the genetic lottery with cute feet. But if you have a shoe fetish, I'm just gonna disappoint you. I don't have an extensive collection of especially femme shoes.
• a bratty sub      Nothing dehydrates my panties like a bratty sub. I appreciate jokes and self-deprecating humor. However! I won't tolerate a perpetually bratty sub (whether you realize you're being bratty or not). I am NOT a brat tamer. If you're a switch, that's good, because I'm also a switch. But if you're looking for a battle for dominance - absolutely not. I would consider that attempt at power play to be brattiness. Occasional moodiness is to be expected (we're all human with fluctuating moods). I recognize that the occasional reaction to a shitty situation is not brattiness.
• a sub who doesn't enjoy erotica    Bruh... Sir. This is to be online-based femdom correspondence. If I write you a mini wannabe Shakespearean novela about all the glorious ways I want to pleasantly torment your dick, and all you reply with is, "wOw MoMmY! I sO wAnT tHaT rIgHt NoW!" that will make me question my fucking life choices. Now, dear reader, do you think ANY domme wants to be questioning their life choices as a result of attempting erotic expression?? No. No, they don't. You don't have to be a great writer. You just have to TRY and be able to communicate what you want and it would help if you have a few fantasies to bring to the party to share. That would be nice.
• race play       Again: I am NOT into race play. If you're into race play, we are NOT kink-compatible.
• Lack of respect/consent      Too often I'll run into a post that mentions a domme not adhering to a safe word. THAT IS NOT ME. For me, consent is extremely sexy. If we have an agreed role play scenario where one person is acting reluctant - consent was still provided and I can get into that. HOWEVER, if one party genuinely has NOT given consent or is actually in reality reluctant or uncomfortable to proceed, then I will not proceed.

More about me

I'm average height and curvy. If I could have a twink physique, I'd love that, but unfortunately with my genetics, it ain't gonna happen. I am what the children call "thicc."

I have a job that's often stressful and sometimes I want to redirect that stress into chatting with a compatible worthy sub.

I'm kind of sensitive; I'm a person. - If you're offline for 5 days, I'm going to think you're either ill, dealing with a funeral, or you just ghosted me and have moved on. If you're going to be offline for days, I would want to be informed so that I'm given the opportunity to respect that. I understand we're all independent adults with our own lives.

This is NOT findom

I am not a scammer or hustler, nor do I have an Only Fans account. I am NOT looking for a sugar daddy/sugarbaby situation. I'm a normal headless person on Reddit who has a normal little job and career to make their coins. If you even insinuate that I need money from you, I will get fucking pissed and set you straight immediately.

If we're both chatting, it's because we both WANT to, not because we need to.

More about what I want

I want to be adored and seen as incredibly hot and sexy.

I want to praise, service, and respect an older man who deserves it.

Maybe you're married. Maybe you have grandkids. I don't really care/mind. I'm looking for an online sub who I can work toward meeting in-person at some point.

Please at least be American-raised (meaning you grew up in the USA). What are we gonna talk about if there's an age gap AND you're Italian?? Probably fuckall, sir. Maybe you're Black American, or Japanese American, Jewish American, Filipino American, not-so-vanilla Irish American, Mexican American, Native American, mixed - whatever. You're a big grown considerate man who I want to make melt under my touch. I want to make you giddy and fucking chipper when you see a notification from me and you read what I want to do to you.

If this is you, message me and please have a NSFW picture of yourself ready to share. If you're a bit outside of the given age gap and you're really REEEEALLY attracted to this post, feel free to respond.

If you're in your 20s, please don't. Every other post is for you; this one is not.

If you're an older person who usually lurks here but this post isn't for you- I encourage you to make your own post! People are in this space BECAUSE they have certain kinks. "Fortune favors the bold."