Hello, I’m 25f (queer) and looking to give a good sub a forever home. I’m naturally bossy, and like to take the lead. Just like my title reads I’m looking to start a friendship that will naturally go to lovers, so if you’re looking for quick cheap fun, then this is the wrong personal for you.

I’m really looking for someone who wants to earn intimacy with me. I live in Arizona but im open to some distance if you’re willing to put in the effort to visiting each other regularly. I’m interested in a monogamous LTR so if you do decide to respond I expect to be the only one you’re talking to and any sign otherwise is a quick way to getting the boot. I’m interested in someone who has their own goals and interests. I don’t expect your life to revolve around me but for us to be a unit that works together to accomplish goals .

I am a part time artist who works full time in a corporate sphere. I love music, nature and reading whatever I can get my hands on. As far as physical appearances, I’m a plus size alternative black woman and I do change up my look frequently. I have a lot of tattoos and I’m in touch with my masculine side. I love makeup and getting dressed up but also on the other end, I love an Adam Sandler fit lol.

As far as kinks, I’m interested in gentle femdom but I do have some sadist inclinations. I enjoy denial, joi, chastity, edging and having someone interested in serving me anyway possible. I would be interested in learning more sissification, pegging and impact play but I’m also fine with not exploring those if you shy away from any of those. Hard nos for me are race play, CNC and scatplay.

My love languages are quality time, gift giving, physical touch and acts of service. If you share the same then we’re probably a perfect match.

I welcome neurodivergence, awkwardness, queers and nice weirdos . If you’re shy, we can work on that. Which will probably take time and is why I genuinely want to take it slow talking and bond with someone. If we both feel a connection, then we can proceed with tasks and go from there. Im looking for consistency, to build trust and then we can work from there.

Please message me with why you think you’ll be a good fit for me and with a song of how you would want our relationship to be. Low effort messages without respect or following the guidelines above will be ignored and any nudes will earn you a fast block. No one under 24 please.

P.s. - I know I’m probably gonna get overwhelmed with messages so be patient for me.