Sooo to make it easy for you, first: What I am not looking for: - Someone who sees this wall of text and thinks it's too much to read instead of being happy about as much information as possible. - Someone who is primarily interested in short-term. - Someone who wants me to relocate - A surface level friendship. - Hourly interaction about stuff like what we eat or the weather. - Someone asking for any kind of tribute or gift to "get started". - Low effort messages. Low effort copy/ pasted to everyone, great. - A quick release.

What I am looking for: - A long-term d/s dynamic. - Developing a deep connection, being genuinely interested in one another. - Mid to high effort introductions. - Conversations about anything. To be fair it might just be the weather sometimes, I am sure we'll figure out common interests. - Compatibility play-wise, we'll figure it out. - Someone who finds joy in being praised.

Nearly everything is negotiable! Not trying to set up rules for you, I just let you have a look inside of me and you can tell me what you think about it. Any answer or advice is very welcome. No pictures required to begin with! Helloooo my name is Marius, I'm 29 from Germany! Happy new year, thanks for reading this far. I work from home as an IT guy and would be able to schedule time at night if our timezones make it necessary. I like to have a drink with friends, watch YouTube, party, Ride my bycicle, go for a walk, play videogames and read. I used to play the drums and might start doing that again. I read horror but don't like to watch horror movies, almost always have a neat appearance but my room is messy, take pride in the fact that I have high moral standards but don't judge. I'm calm and grounded, friendly towards beings, like to cook and to eat (but you don't see it). I like music that is not mainstream (Metal, Punk, Beethoven, hard Techno/Goa). I'm interested in learning new things and would gladly learn from you! I'm completely new as a sub; have been dominant in my real life experiences, we can talk more about that in DMs. I'm eager to be a good sub but I won't submit to a random person. I am motivated intrinsically of course. But you need to be interesting, kind and fun to be around (no pressure). I like talkative and outgoing people for their stories and shy introverted people for their realness. Your age (18 ) and level of experience does not matter at all! Looks are somewhat less important, but I'd like to be attracted to you. I'm fit/ skinny (179cm 70kg) and like endurance sports more than weight lifting. I don't have much body hair and look younger than I am. Let's have a chat! Please introduce yourself however you'd like, it will give me a first impression of your character. State the stuff that obviously interests me like name, age, country, maybe a picture if you're feeling wild, say something about what I wrote or let me know about your experiences. DMs and PMs are fine.

I did not include any kinks so far, did I? This really shouldn't be the first thing you ask for; I put them at the bottom because the rest has to fit in order to develop a kinky relationship. I'd happily chat with someone if I enjoy it (this is a stupid sentence because it's a truism. I just wanted to make clear that I'm up for chatting only too. Especially in the beginning). Kinks (I try to order them): Joi/joe, submitting, praising, some anal & light bondage, showing off, voyeurism Soft limits: Cei, feet, probably more Hard limits: Toilet stuff, severe harm, involving other people, findom, ABDL, probably more

Additional rambling for the really interested or bored reader: 420/ whatever friendly (I don't smoke), please be somewhat intelligent. I don't care about your grades or your profession though. Emotional intelligence is very important to me too. Sometimes it just HITS me and I really need to learn about a topic. Last time it was binary numbers for some reason. I drink too much energy drinks, enjoy writing. I got to know that I really enjoy praising, so it would be appreciated if you'd enjoy being the receiving part. Being praised feels good too, but don't do it too much. Someone needs to teach me the rules for using commas; I feel like I do it wrong all the time. I'm worried about people not liking my German accent (I speak standard German though, no Bavaria stuff or anything crazy).