Hey there! :3 I hope this finds you well and your day is bright and filled with love and laughter. You've found me at an auspicious time, on the search for new connections.

A little about me

• Trans Woman (yes, I have and use it)
• Unnatural Redhead
• Lifestyle Domme with 5 yrs in current TPE.
• Sometimes Artist
• Gamer and proud pirate
• Tall (6'1)
• Kitchen Table Polyamorous and soul-bonded to the most beautiful person (I married up and am a bit picky)
• Retired with free time to spare

My ideal submissive

• Submissive - This should go without saying, but I'd like a submissive and not someone who is trying to top from the bottom or play out a kink. Switches are welcome, but do not expect me to submit to you. If you have never been submissive, please start your journey elsewhere.
• 21-35 years of age (non-negotiable)
• Preferably in Minnesota or a surrounding state, willing to meet sooner rather than later, AND willing to relocate near me.
• Honesty (non-negotiable)
• Able openly communicate and invest in conversation (non-negotiable)
• Seeking serious, long-term, lifestyle commitment (this is not just a kink for me)
• Voice and video chat
• Fit and smooth (I want a sub that can take care of themselves and I do not like body hair.)

This wouldn't be complete if I didn't go into the things that I'd like to enjoy together. Let me start by saying I am a soft domme and do not enjoy being aggressive. I don't like to cause immense pain emotionally or physically, but I do enjoy some teasing and reactionary play. A little pain never hurt, right? Otherwise I am a gentle caregiver with a passion for nurturing. I enjoy the softer side of dominating someone. This is not an all-inclusive list, and I am open to things not on my list of limits. I have been specific in my exclusion and if it's not on there, I'm probably open it.

Some kinks include..

• Service Submission, listed first because it's one of my favorites (non-negotiable)
• Cuddling ( I know it's not a kink, but if you're touch-averted, we aren't compatible. I need physical touch and cuddling.)
• Orgasm control and denial
• Edging
• Chastity
• Teasing/Embarrassment/Light Humiliation
• Anal plugs and play
• Light pain/impact
• Bathing/Shaving
• Outfit control/Uniforms
• Total Power Exchange
• Worship (me)
• Sensory play and deprivation
• Pet Play (but not furries, sorry, the suits freak me out)
• Breastfeeding
• Bondage
• CNC
• Exhibition
• Voyeurism

I very much take on a maternal role in doing my best to help you be the best you can be, while being a bit depraved for mommy when needed. I want to keep you safe and protected. The better to serve me with, my dear.

The dynamic looks like..

• 24/7. I know you have a life outside of me that you must attend to and my goal is to help you along the way. I understand we won't communicate 24/7, but that doesn't mean our dynamic stops at any point.
• Voice and video calls, video games, sending pictures back and forth, including each other in our lives
• Platonic time together
• Rules to follow, personally tailored and consensual
• Punishments/Funishments
• Non-monogamous play with others for pleasure
• Eventual collaring
• Commitment to each other
• Relatively soon in-person meet, especially if you're not nearby. That's more of a reason I need to see you, not an excuse to put it off longer. I need you to be serious.
• Control of personal things(negotiable): routines, outfits, dates, leisure time
• Assigned tasks and rewards
• Eventual relocation near and possible (years down the road) cohabitation

Hard limits : Diapers, toiletry, misgendering, knife/bloodplay

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Messages

Please include your preferred name, pronouns, sexual and gender identity, and tell me a little of what caught your eye (or your breath). A photo would be helpful and eventually will be necessary.

I try to respond to messages and aim to get back to everyone, even if that is to say we aren't compatible or I'm not interested. We're all human beings here and I believe we're all owed some basic respects. Be gracious in my denial if it comes to that. I do enjoy seeing effort in messages.

You deserve all the head pats for reading through it all!

I appreciate your time and look forward to hearing from you. (: