I'm a 40 year old transwoman who still has her fully functional penis (Disclaimer: I identify here as a transwoman and make it known I have a penis for my own safety! In all other areas of my life I identify exclusively as a woman and my penis may or may not stay with me in the future). I'm 5'11" and was athletic with a runner's body in my younger years. My body is still height/weight proportional but I have a little bit of a tummy now that I'm not as active as I used to be. My breasts are natural and small but well defined. I've lived openly as a woman for over a decade and am generally identified by strangers as a woman, but keen eyed people may suspect that I was not assigned female at birth. I'm not ugly but also not "traditionally" pretty. To be clear I think I'm good looking. I mean, **I'd** flirt with me but no one is putting me on the cover of a Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Edition.

I am looking for a gentle dominant woman interested in an open relationship with the possibility (but no guarantee) of a monogamous relationship in the future. I'm not opposed to starting something online but absolutely want something in person sooner rather than later. Unabashed dominance in romantic situations is expected but can vary intensity. Openness to kink is a must. General dominance in daily life is acceptable as long as my self determination is respected and my emotional needs are not ignored. I'm looking for someone who is in charge not someone mean.

I will meet anyone who identifies as a woman in a public place as long as they interested in kink, pass a vibe check while chatting, and are willing to actually meet up in person. Once we've met in public and everything seems chill we can decide what happens next. No promises or expectations (maybe some hopes, though). I'm not interested in being treated exclusively as a kink/fetish toy or submitting to you without first having established some familiarity with one another.

Here are a few of my desires/fantasies. Take your pick or maybe suggest your own!

Hard limits are vomit and scat. Soft limits are humiliation and pain.

BIG Turn Ons:

• Dominant women (especially woman who have been traditionally looked down on by society young[18 !! I **will** verify]/short/Women of Color/Alt/Queer)
• Lactation (looking to suckle a woman who is lactating, I want to induce but I am not currently lactating)
• pee/watersports (prefer to receive, willing to give)
• Period/Menstruation (lots of desires here... message me)
• Pregnant (I would love to worship your pregnant body!)
• Armpits (a little stubble, some sweat, or a nice aroma really turn me on!)
• Gloryhole (I sooo want to visit a gloryhole with a woman and share everything that comes our way)
• Creampie/cum cleanup/cum sharing (Preferably with just a woman but willing to include men if the woman is dom and men are sub/anonymous)
• Groups/Public play (in locations where everyone is consenting)

Regular Turn Ons:

• Spit in my mouth
• Sit on my face
• Shove my head between your legs and tell me to start licking
• Fisting (I would love to fist you, I've never been fisted but interested in trying if it feels right)
• Trampling/stepping on me
• Pegging/Strap on
• Breast play
• Affectionate/gentle

Slight preferences (but not at all exclusive):

• Women of non Caucasian descent
• Petite
• flat chested/bois
• Breast implants/breast reduction/tattoos/piercings/body modifications