Hi! How nice of you to check my ad. I'm J, a 34 year old married guy. Now hold on don't close it yet! My wife knows I'm on here and since she isn't very dominant I have her blessing to find someone who can help me with that part of my life. So, as for me, I really do not have an average body size but I'm working on that. People who want skinny subs or muscular guys should probably close this ad now. The kind of dynamic I am looking for is hard to describe, I'm not looking for a super model as our "click" is far more important than how you look, and I (obviously) expect the same for you. I realize that a lot of guys around here are looking for a kink dispenser, which is really not what I am looking for.

I am very curious about bisexuality but don't have any experience with that (yet). Mostly I'd like our dynamic to take place via the internet, though we can meet up if you're close enough. Also, I am willing to verify, if you will also verify.

Some keywords about me as a person: Extravert, ADHD, metalhead, metalworker, gamer, music lover, film enthusiast.

Some of my kinks (but not limited to): Femdom, tease and denial, bondage, sadism, masochism, cuckolding, chastity, humiliation, body writing, feet and much much more.

Some of my NOT kinks (which I also have no interest of talking about): Scat, bestiality, actual rape, abdl, ageplay and blood (I dont mind a few drops because of needle play but I dont play because of the blood). Also I might forget some now but I'll let you know if I dont wanna talk about it. If you made it this far and are still interested, please send me a message! If youre not, thats totally fine too! The only thing I really want to state is that I am NOT looking for findom, and also don't message me if you require a "one-time-only-acceptance-fee".

Also, please excuse me from any spelling/typing errors. Please include your favorite dinosaur to verify you have read the whole ad. English it not my native language but I'm always willing to be corrected (simply because I want to learn).