Hihi! You can call me Feymarch for now, I'll share my real name when we get a bit more comfy. I'm just a girl who's looking for a few more playthings. And err. By "playthings", I mean people to hopefully build long-term dynamics with. Hehe.

I'd also love to make friends with other female/enby doms to learn from one another!

A little about me. I'm a trans BBW somewhere in her 30's who's good for deep, intelligent conversations about a variety of topics, whether it be behavioral psychology, theories of ethics and why nearly all of them are flawed, queer issues in old non-English video games (yes, there were games that touched on queer issues!), or the particulars of different forms of sushi. 😂 I'm also a major homebody and INFJ who deeply values open communication made in mutual good faith.

I've been domming for somewhere north of a decade and was a sub before that. I've been on both sides of TPE dynamics in the past, and currently have one committed submissive (another woman) plus one possible sub who I'm very hopeful about (who's questioning their gender.) My biggest kink is by far psycholgical domination, and I'm generally a sadistic bitch when I'm in the mood 💕 (I'll step on your balls and giggle at the pain like a gleeful little girl with an obnoxious toy...) But I likely won't come on too strong with any of this until I get to know you better. I also expect service submission as far as you're capable of giving it, though not being able to for whatever reason is not a dealbreaker.

What I'm looking for is new partners to hopefully build lifelong dynamics with. It goes without saying that this takes huge amounts of communication and trust! Ideally, we'll get to know one another and continue to grow closer so I can control more and more over time. If you read this post, make sure to open your chat message with your favorite Stardew Valley bachelor(ette) and why. I realize that controlling someone is a Big Fucking Deal, which I take deadly seriously (PRICK: Personal Responsibility, Informed Consent). To be clear, I am not looking for strictly online dynamics and will expect you to visit and eventually move to me. There's a lot that can be negotiated related to this, so if you read the entire post and are interested, I expect you to message me! :P

Things I would prefer in a sub

*It's important that you have some awareness of how to do power exchange and some idea of what you want out of it.

*I very strongly prefer that subs be able to top me (i.e., penetrate me as I train them to.) I am willing to top given the right circumstances, but it shouldn't be why you're messaging me. And big cocks are extra fun!

*That you be unattached and able to commit monogamously to me (it's more fun to humiliate you with me having other partners that way!) although this is negotiable.

*That you be open with communication. This is vital. If you aren't, I'll lose interest very quickly.

*That you pursue me. I'm a woman. Treat me like one.

If you're interested, read the entire post and chat me with the following: your age, location, gender identity, pronouns, relationship status, ability to travel to NC, occupation, level of sexual experience, level of power exchange experience, what you feel you can offer, and why this appeals to you. If you have not read this entire post or miss any of these points, you will be ignored.