ISO a Domme Lady who has reached the point of her life where she has raised her kids and is ready to be more self-focused and enjoy her “me” time and is looking for an attentive man and . . .

• it’s Her nature to be a more controlling type where she expects to be put first in Her relationship

• would enjoy a man who wants to be devoted and dedicated to striving to please Her - make it all about Her

• enjoys Her “me time” or private alone-time whether that is just relaxing or spending time on Her hobbies but expects her man to be available and responsive to Her when needed

• expects to be pampered and have Her man take care of the chores and domestic tasks that she does not enjoy doing - and learn to do so “Her way”

• enjoys taking the lead and making the rules over Her relationship and Her man

• 40 years old

• thin or curvy - for me it’s more about the connection and chemistry.

me:

• average looking - 5’11” 250lbs

• use to be more athletic but still somewhat athletic

• enjoy working-out but not obsessed with it

• have a professional job as an account manager for a software company - work remotely from home mostly - plan to continue to work outside the home and take over the domestic chores - not looking for a free-ride.

• attracted to a strong controlling Lady who expects her man to follow Her rules and have things done Her way.

• enjoys nice dinners and travel and beach vacations

i feel strongly that the my role in the relationship is to make Her life easier. i expect to learn what she enjoys so she doesn’t need to ask. otherwise i’m not paying attention and i’m not focusing on what is important - pleasing Her. im a “pleaser” just wired that way i guess. i match best with a lady who tends to be selfish and would enjoy pushing her man to be attentive to Her needs and wants.

i’m in Ohio but my son is now in he’s 20s and on his own so i’m open to relocating

Feel free to send me a chat msg if a D/s relationship interests you.