If this is up, I'm still looking. Please read all of it and don't reply if any of my dealbreakers apply to you. It's a waste of my time and yours.

SFW Section:

Age: 54. I’m looking for a long-term, in-person relationship with a submissive man (preferably a little) between 35 and 55 years old.

If you reply to this, I expect you to put in *at least* as much effort as I did in crafting my ad. Don't call me Mommy/Miss/Ma'am or any other honorific.

My appearance: 5’ tall, curvy, BBW. Blue eyes. Short hair in various colors. Right now, it’s red.

Location: You should be within a reasonable driving distance of mid-Michigan. Closer is better. I want an in-person connection, even if it starts out long distance.

Pictures: I will share pics eventually and expect you to, as well.

Looking For: I’m looking for a long-term, in-person, romantic MD/lb relationship with a submissive man who is on the progressive end of the political spectrum. This is important to me. If you don’t vote or are apolitical, we will not be a match.

You should be employed, educated beyond high school, mature, and adventurous.

You should want to explore and love to travel.

You should have at least one creative hobby (writing, drawing, painting, playing an instrument, etc.)

You should be a good conversationalist and be outgoing enough to want to meet my friends and family, if things get serious.

Deal breakers/Requirements:

35-55

No drug use or smoking.

No kids.

No married or partnered men.

No STDs.

Ethically non-monogamous. I prefer that you have no other partners, but other male partners could be negotiated.

You must be honest and communicate openly and frequently. Ideally, we’d talk or be together daily once things are established.

About Me:

I’m solo poly. My main partner is 99% online (I haven’t seen them in person since spring 2019). I want something in person.

I’m an introvert. I prefer deep conversations over small talk. If I’m not dying to stay up all night talking to you, I’ll know it’s not going to work.

I’m educated, employed, intelligent, creative, and open-minded.

I love to travel and try new foods and see new places. I feel most at home by the ocean and love seafood and desserts. I love music (especially 70s, 80s, and 90s pop/rock/alternative and Celtic and folk music) and live concerts. (I have tickets to 8 shows in 2024!)

I like taking classes to learn new skills, like painting, glass sculpting, metalwork, beading, etc.

I love to cook and bake, quilt, listen to podcasts, read, draw, and paint.

I’m an atheist and prefer that you are atheist or agnostic or indifferent about religion. If you are religious or devout, we will not be a match.

NSFW Section:

Experience: I’ve been doing BDSM off and on since the mid-1990s. I’m technically a switch, although I haven’t been a sub in RL for several years. I have experience both online and in person as a gentle / Mommy Domme and that is my preferred role.

Kinks: I'm into most of the common Mommy Domme kinks, especially chastity and ageplay. I am not interested in humiliating or belittling you.

Limits: Blood, scat, vomit, brats, illegal activities. We will certainly discuss kinks and limits in detail if a connection is formed.

I expect polite, respectful, PG messages from men who meet my criteria. All others will be ignored.