What I really really want:

• I want a fun, flirty, vivacious, silly, entertaining, interesting, delightful woman.
• I want a dominant woman, who knows that dominance comes from the mind.
• I want a confident woman, comfortable in her own skin, who knows how to use her body to inspire all KINDS of thoughts.
• I want a woman who is going to be an amazing friend as well as a deeply compatible sexual partner.
• I want a woman who wants to lead in the entire relationship, even though we may look like a "traditional" couple (I am a traditionally attractive, masculine man in a traditionally powerful career-driven profession).

I wanna...I wanna...I wanna.....(kink friendly section):

• I want a woman who is open minded, who enjoys being worshipped, who enjoys pleasure and teasing and orgasms for all.
• I want a woman who is open minded about trying a variety of things.
• I want a woman who isn't afraid to ask questions, to demand what she wants, to put herself first in the bedroom AND in life.

If you want to be my lover....

• (No, you don't have to get with my friends. In fact, that bit is more discouraged than anything).
• You should like someone tall, blonde, and pretty fucking nordic looking (yes, including the red beard. Don't worry, I keep it well trimmed, especially the mustache, as I know it can get scratchy at times. Remember, your preferences are deeply important to me).
• You should like someone who is intelligent, outspoken, and confident.
• You should enjoy acts of service, quality time, and words of affirmation. And physical touch. And gift giving. Hell, ALL the love languages, really, but let's just say listed in order of importance.
• You should send me a message, or a chat. Either. I probably prefer chat, and I hope that you'll want to move to discord eventually. :)