I am seeking a real connection with someone. If you want a play partner or something easy you don't have to put effort into, turn back now. You've already wasted several precious seconds.

Vanilla me:

I'm your average computer nerd trans woman with a $3k gaming rig, a gigabit internet connection, a seedbox and access to private torrents. Means we can watch whatever, whenever, from wherever. I usually watch fantasy, sci-fi, or cutesy stuff. I'm not big on horror unless I have a big spoon holding me. My current spoon is little. I am married and kitchen table poly. My spouse dates separately. I'm a little artsy and trying to figure out interests and hobbies still. I'm financially independent and have an excess of leisure time.

Non-vanilla me:

Switch with a domme-lean. I enjoy sensory play alot, bondage, limited amounts of impact, and other sexual kinks. Details will come later. Mostly I thrive on the dynamic, the control. I enjoy service submission outside the bedroom. I might like pet play as a handler. I'd like to explore some power bottom play. Mutual pleasure is the name of the game, and I enjoy doling it out more than receiving it.

Hard Limits: diapers, permanent injury, scars, anything waste related

If you're still here, I expect that you won't waste my time. If you can't spare me a minute or two of your day to keep in touch as we get to know each other, it probably won't work out. I require communication to be open and honest. I don't enjoy going days without hearing from someone for no reason or without notice. My photos are on my profile. I've given you a solid bit of information about me. If your message doesn't include complementary information about you in these areas, and maybe a word or two about why you'd like me in your life, maybe a photo, I will probably not respond.