I'm a 39-year-old in the Eastside of Seattle that is trying to come out of a shell that I put on around the outbreak of covid four years ago that I've still yet to emerge from. But I'm ready, I think, to get back out there and explore the submissive side of me that I've learned over the course of my 30s is my truest self. A couple physical stats: 5'11", 220 lbs.

I'm an avid reader, a video and board game player, and a generalist in knowledge. I like to know about a lot of topics, this makes it hard to be super knowledgeable about any one of them. I run D&D games, I go on walks in my neighborhood and I love being barefoot. I have a long-time job and I like alone in a townhouse with my cat.

I'm looking for someone who likes being the dominant member of the relationship without thinking of me as a slave. What I mean is, I like being subtle about it. I give you a massage when you ask for it, or do a bit of cleaning for you, or watch the movie you want to watch. When we're with friends, we don't exhibit these tenancies in an obvious way. And even though you're the dominant one, we're still also equals in the relationship, with needs and wants and desires. We should both feel cared for, and satisfied.

Kink-wise, I'm big into being tied up. I am such a little submissive when I get tied up. I can be a touchy person, I like hugs and cuddles and kisses. And I also like being tied up and touched. Like, I can be on cloud nine if you simply bind my hands and feet and cuddle me on the couch. I'm that easy! I also don't mind a little play torture, although I do not require it. Being tied up is important to me and I really want it as part of a relationship, but everything else is a nice to have.

I'm looking for something in-person and that is more than just a one-time thing. I only like seeing one person at a time, and I'm currently not seeing anyone. If this made sense to you or intrigued you and you live in or around Seattle, I'd love to hear from you. I promise no dick pics.