https://imgur.com/a/1IrtWDX

(I'm probably gonna regret putting my pictures on here but hey, it's 2024)

Hi there, I'm Dreamer.

For almost four months now, I've been pursuing mental health treatment. I spent a month in a residential facility outside of Nashville for a month. After I was released, I spent a week and a half in a PHP program in Chattanooga. That wasn't the right fit for me, so I drove myself to Knoxville and have been at a PHP/supportive house for 10 weeks now.

I'm real close to Sevierville/Pigeon Forge. I just stepped down to IOP recently and I'm looking to get a part time job in a pharmacy. So I'm able to drive, have more freedom (with a curfew ofc), etc. Anyway, I've been in a much better headspace for a long while now and I'm ready to find someone special to start a relationship with.

Anyway, where do I start about me?

I'm 25 years old (26 in 25 days), an Aquarius and an INFJ-T. Originally from the Middle TN area. I'm very thicc but I've been eating better and exercising a little while I've been in treatment. It is what it is lmao. Also, I'm 5 feet, 7 inches so I'm kinda tall-ish...? Lmao.

My hobbies/interests: Writing, music, playing computer/video games occasionally (but not since I've been in treatment), photography, watching TV and movies, people watching, traveling and so much more I can't think of right now. Also, I started journaling on Day 3 of residential and I've been doing it mostly every day since then. It's been so cathartic to have someone "listen to" my honest thoughts and feelings without judgment. If you and I get really close, I'd love to share my entries and the "mental journey" that I've been on.

So before my life fell apart lmao, I had plans to start pre-req classes for nursing school. But now that I'm an entirely new living situation (and region of the state), I've been flirting with the idea of attending online classes at WGU and getting my Bachelor's. We'll see what happens; I need to wait until I'm settled down, of course.

Hnm, some random stuff about me: I love animals (especially cats, dogs and snakes!), I only drink socially; haven't had a drink in 110 days and since I'm in a program for both mental health and substance abuse, it requires sobriety from everyone regardless of your background. (Also the fact that mixing alcohol with the meds I'm on might make me accidentally OD is a pretty good deterrent as well) So I'm completely sober. I don't mind if you drink socially, though. I don't do drugs, I'm clean and disease free... I have my own car and most of my sanity lmao.

I took up vaping a few weeks ago. I do enjoy the nicotine rush but I'm willing to give it up if it really bothers you. Just let me know.

What am I looking for?

1. Someone who is taller than me (I'm 5'7" in case you forgot lmao)
2. Someone who has nice hair (I've always been attracted to hair that's long enough for me to touch/play with lol)
3. Good qualities such as kindness, sweetness, honesty, lovable, affectionate, gentleness, maturity, understanding, etc...
4. Between the ages of 22-32 (I'm willing to make a slight exception if you match everything else I'm looking for and are mature)
5. Displays chivarly to me (holding doors open, being cognizant of my needs and feelings, etc)
6. Enjoys expressing your preferred love languages (My top three are words of affirmation, physical touch and gift giving/receiving... but I love them all tbh!)
7. Enjoys going out and doing fun stuff but also enjoys hanging out at home, watching movies, ordering in, etc... just to name an example!
8. Loves animals too! Whenever I have my own place, I'd love to adopt a kitten since I had to give up my cats when my mom and I lost our place
9. Lives in the nearby area/states and/or is willing to visit regularly (and vice versa). I want us to spend time together and build an emotional and physical connection with each other.
   1. Has a car, so we can drive around and do stuff during our time together. I'm the best passenger princess out there! Haha.

Other miscellaneous things I like: Blue and green eyes (this is optional ofc but would be an amazing plus!), soft boys, musicians/artists, deep conversations, lots of cuddles and kisses.

I'm looking for a long term relationship. No "situationships" or cheating. I want someone completely single and emotionally available to connect with and fall in love with someone. Again, as I mentioned, I need an in-person connection. If you aren't local, long distance would be okay for a short time but if you aren't in any position to visit/have me visit you, then please don't waste your or my time.

I want someone to hold hands with, go on dates, run errands together, engage in lots of physical affection, cuddle up together on cold nights, take spontaneous drives with our favorite music playing, eventual physical intimacy (AKA I need/want to take things slow), all of that fun stuff.

There's tons more to say about all that but I'll leave it there for us to build upon.

If you message me, please tell me the basics about yourself (age, height, hair color, eye color, body type (no numbers are required unless you want to say so), a recent SFW picture of yourself since I put mine on this post, where you live, your intentions and wants for a long term relationship and if things turn serious, if you're willing and able to commit to maintaining an in person relationship through regular visits and eventual relocation (we can revisit that at a later time).

Anything else you want to add to your message would be much appreciated; longer messages catch my eye and not "Hey wyd" lmao.

Please put the word "Spooky" in your message so I know that you actually read all of this. If you don't include the things I asked for in your message, I won't respond. It might seem mean, but it just makes it easier to sift through who is actually interested in me and who is just spamming the same shit to everyone. Also, if you ask me questions about basic things I already talked about (like "How old are you?") I'm gonna go ahead and assume that you didn't actually take the time to read my post.

Anyway, I hope to hear from you soon!

Stay sweet!