Hi there! I'm looking for somebody to start as friends, and whether we choose to take it to the next step hopefully will be made carefully with full confidence given time. Unless you are extremely patient, then I'm not looking to get into a relationship quickly. I'm still working on life and becoming independent, and I feel a little behind (which is okay, everyone moves at different paces), so I don't feel particularly qualified to be in a super serious relationship.

I'll give ya a little about me so you can decide if you want to become friends <3

Physical: Chinese/Viet 5'11'', black hair leaning towards long hair (for a guy at least), brown eyes, glasses, with an average weight profile (not skinny, not really fat)

Personality: ESFP (just so it's thrown out there). I'm an extremely expressive and at times energetic person (and other times smol and like REALLY sleepy). I'm definitely a more feminine guy in relativity to other guys, I feel more in tune and understood by females than guys. I'm also ... nerdy? geeky? both? I'm the type of guy to go off on random tangents about like..... the things I find interesting about random things. Both nerdy/geeky and analytical in a sense, with a tad of inquisitive curiosity sprinkled in. I'd like to think that I'm a relatively kind and understanding person, and I (at least as far as I can discern) have good intent when it comes to life. I want good for everybody around me and I want to be there for my friends both in good and bad times. I generally have a low self esteem (though I've been doing much better after therapy) and generally soft boy vibes. One thing peculiar about me is that I'm very understanding, sometimes to a fault (at least that's what some people say). I am the very opposite of judgmental and I try to understand people, and I value this because I used to feel very misunderstood, and I never want anybody to feel that same way. I'm also what I would say am more prone to emotions (especially in relativity to other guys), which can mean many things including (e.g. strong emotions, sensitivity, mood stability, etc...) if you see that as a general negative then I think you're very unlikely to get along with me.

Kink/Femdom part: Yeah this IS r/femdompersonals so I'll explain some more about that profile on me. I'm more of a gentle femdom person on average, but I still enjoy some of the rougher femdom stuff. I don't want to be somebody's little "pet" or "plaything" I'm looking for a long-term fruitful relationship. Things that are boundaries that I won't cross or at least I don't think I'm interested in are are: pegging, most forms of humiliation/degradation, physical pain, bodily fluid play(???).

Thank you for reading all of this, if you have any questions please don't hesitate to message me, I like to think I'm the opposite of scary. Regardless, have a lovely rest of your day and/or good luck on your search.