Hi there! I’ve been on the apps and having very little success, admittedly, so why not give this a spin?

I identify as bi, but I very heavily lean toward women. If you’re not a lady and think we’d match up well, by all means respond, but juuuust know I lean toward women. Now, let’s get started. :)

I’ll be honest: I’m looking for the real deal. I want love, I want someone to come home to. I’m in a fairly good place in my life and sharing it with someone sounds like an adventure. I want a travel companion, someone who loves to cook so I’ll do the dishes, and just like… the whole thing. But I also have certain proclivities and I love the feeling of knowing everything is going my way in the bedroom. Thus: here we are.

So, a little about me: I’m a pretty big nerd. I love video games like ffxiv, RPGs, and cozy games like farming sims etc. I also read a lot and write a little (lately it’s been fanfiction, god help me). I’m a cat person, I have a job I mostly enjoy, I’m in therapy like everyone else, and I’m on discord so I’ll send a selfie over there should we hit it off. I will tell you I’m curvy, not skinny, like midsized? So… yeah. I’m on a wellness journey but it’s a long haul.

I’d call myself distinguished femme. I don’t necessarily look queer but I’m also a late bloomer with very little experience at long-term dating. But I know what I want, generally: someone I can laugh with, grow with, and spend my life with.

As for what I’m looking for: I’m a domme but not in it for orders, if that makes sense. I’m a softie, and I’m really looking for someone who likes service and treating me like a princess. I get off on feeling worshipped, feeling like I’m in complete control, even if I’m not necessarily dictating every action. I burned out hard my first go-round with d/s stuff trying to cater to that with various folks, so putting that out there. My biggest kink is hypnosis by far. Everything else i’m pretty negotiable with, except chastity and pegging which I just don’t enjoy that much lol.

Oh, also: ideally, I’d like someone who’s 25-35, about my same life stage. I am not comfortable with anyone older than that due to my comparative lack of relationship experience, and I’m not comfortable with anyone younger because we’re likely in different life stages. Local/in the southeast strongly preferred!!

One last thing: I highly prefer the chat on here over DMs (I know, unpopular) because I use the app and have a shit memory so I can’t remember long messages lmao. Still, DMs are fine if you strongly prefer them. I’m flexible! Send a detailed response (these will be MUCH MORE LIKELY to get a response from me) telling me about yourself, witty banter highly valued. Listing your age and location and saying you want a domme is not a detailed response. Please do not title me, I am not comfortable with that out the gate. Thanks for reading.