I’m looking to engage in meaningful conversations that provide insight, foster personal and meaningful growth, and encouragement. I’ve spent the better part of the last three years working on my own personal improvement, development, and care. I’ve never felt more myself nor have I ever been in such good shape as I currently find myself. All said, I can’t say I’ve ever been better.

But that also comes with some hard truths. In my personal journey, I’ve come to realize that my submissive nature comes more from a deep sense of servitude. For years, I have abused that nature and invested it in unnecessary avenues and unworthy endeavors. Instead of honing my capabilities and investing my time, efforts, and energies into meaningful and worthy people and acts. Over the last couple years I’ve been able to identify that this service-centric trait and a subdued submissive nature are not only ingrained but also important to my general psyche.

That said, I have a deeply rooted fear and/or lack of ability to comfortably speak to my personal needs. I believe part of that is growing up in a very traditional Christian household. I struggle to convey that which I want, especially when my perspective is allowed to question how it might be received. Good ol’ fashioned fear and self-loathing…

I am comfortably and rather blissfully married. I cherish my wife and am not at all looking for something outside my marriage. For a long time I thought femdom was something I craved or saw in her. Sought to draw it out of her. But I’ve recognized that, while that may be true (I comfortably embrace my servitude elsewhere within our relationship), I need this for my own health and well-being.

So what I’m looking for: someone that wants to indulge and chat excessively about female dominance and how to successfully (and hopefully comfortably) navigate that conversation within the very real existing relationship I currently have with my loving wife. I’d love to share experiences, discuss avenues, or provide confidence in, ideally, both directions. Above all, I want to share in the very pure human experience of two consenting adults discussing the beauty and grace of female dominance in this droll patriarchal reality we currently find ourselves.

Hope to hear from you!