Hi! :) Thanks for clicking on my post. I might be a tad too vanilla for this forum, but I guess we'll find out when the responses either don't come in at all, or come pouring in! The BDSM-y element of a relationship I'd be interested centers around the idea of final say. I would like having the ability to give final say at will. But the typical BDSM bedroom activities aren't what I'm looking for. So if this sounds good to you so far, please continue reading! :p

Recently I’ve found myself wanting to date men, while most of my dating history has involved dating women. Something about you dudes, the muscle, the protectiveness. Maybe one of ya’ll out there will align well with me! I will say, though, that I am pretty masculine in my appearance (fade haircut, etc.) so if you’re into the girly-girl variety, that’s not me. I also enjoy more stereotypically masculine activities/hobbies, so we might have a few things in common if you do, too! I’ve been curious about working on cars, so if you know how to do that, I’d love to explore that world with you!

I guess you deserve to read a few traits about me, too! I’m thoughtful, detail-oriented, adventurous, cuddly, silly, some say nerdy ;), and a good question-asker. I have quite high anxiety and have work to do to get where I’d like to be in life, so I will need someone patient and hopefully less worry-prone than myself. The person I’m seeking will also be: kind/have a big heart, protective, relatively in shape, devoted, and not religious.

Okie dokes, I think that’s good for now. If you’re still reading, hi again! :p

Please be 25 and near eastern WA (or willing to travel here frequently for visits). Let me know you read this post by referencing details in it, and I’d absolutely love to see a picture of you, so if you decide to include one, you get top priority! Thank you and good luck out there!