Hello!

My name is Flako but you can call me whatever you like :) So first a bit about me, I’m 26 from the Bay Area and I love music, hiking, nature, people watching, educating, video games, cooking, long reflective conversations, learning, and growing overall. I also play guitar, drums, bass, ukulele, and some piano. I’d say I have really witty and silly humor, dad jokes for sure but I love brightening people up with a smile so I love quick dumb jokes. I also love my job in education and would love to talk about it if anybody is interested in listening :)

I’m attending grad school in the area to progress my career prospects. I love educating and being a positive impact on the world so my long term goal is to be a professor.

Also a lil bit about how I look and dress is I’m hispanic, curly hair, dark brown eyes, 5’9 dad bod type beat. I love to wear cute oversized hoodies, beanies, and color schemes. So I’ll like to do a blue suede/cotoroid day, or match my orange hoodie with an orange beanie and blue shoes, or my lime green suicide prevention awareness sweater with my lime green bulbasaur beanie. And always overalls with hoodies are my viiiiibe.

I am a sub leaning switch. Ideally, I’d like to be in a FLR, a sub to somebody, play partners, or kink minded friends are awesome too!

The person I’m ideally searching for is 21-50 yrs old, lives near/in the Bay Area. Closer to my age is preference, but I’m open to meeting anybody of any identity :)

As a sub, I am very obedient. I love making others happy and that absolutely shines through when I am subbing. I also try to be proactive and go above and beyond when I’m tasked with something. Also, I wouldn’t say that I’m bratty, but I have a very witty and quick mouth and I can say some things that can get me in trouble.

One example of a dynamic that I like is a sort of impossible task, where I’d be tasked with doing something that’s impossible to do in a given time, so then I’d be made to complete the task, and also take a punishment.

As a dom, I enjoy many of the things as a sun also. I still do many chivalrous things as a person, and that extends into my play as a top/dom. I love to spoil my partner and then also have fun and really take power and control, but always within limits that can be discussed and reflected on!

My kinks are power exchange, humiliation, impact play, feminization, pegging, light and heavy bondage, play involving gags, wax play, chastity, electro-play, orgasm control, and more adjacent kinks. I also love being useful so I love cleaning and organizing for somebody else.

My Limits Financial domination, knives, scat, and blood play

Thanks for taking the time to read this message and I look forward to chatting :)