We are Mari and Esmene and we are looking for a third person to join us in our vibing. Mari (me) likes bonsai trees, singing, and spending too many hours doing investigative research into ancient Mesopotamia. Esmene also likes to sing and learn everything possible about nature and human genetics while pursuing a passion for writing and storytelling. We spend most of our time talking and creating things together and are looking for a third to join us for long-term polyamorous adventures.

We are direct and sensitive communicators who have worked very hard on our relationship. Esmene is extremely empathetic and an extremely useful counsel for advice and perspective, invaluable, and I take leadership very seriously. We will be on the road mostly working on projects.

Non-Negotiables

Under 30

D&D / Roleplay-Friendly

Must Be Bisexual or Pansexual

Must Not Be Religiously-Affiliated

Must Be Submissive or Switchy Submissive

Loves Learning New Things

Be Open to Relocation / Working Remote / Life on the Road

Eager and Able to Play the Role of Our Most Loyal Bodyguard / Guard Dog / Bull <3

Kinks: Chastity, Denial & Control, Consensual Non-Consent, Collars, Ritual Sex, Conditioning, Tattoos / Piercings

Hard Limits: Anything Unhygienic, Unhealthy, or Unsafe

Preferences

Spiritually Active / Curious

Physically Active / Curious

Levity / Sense of Humor

Grew Up in US South

Neurodivergent

Masochism

Our Lifestyle

Esmene says we appear to be “innocuously monotonous in our behavior at first”, mostly because we basically seem to live like retired people most of the time. We wake up and have some quiet morning time, do our morning routine, get some work done on the computer, take some breaks and hangout with each other and the dogs, and then spend the evening usually working on creative projects and infodumping about what we are researching and our progress.

We like to sing karaoke in the evening and consult the Tarot cards pretty regularly as well. Esmene works out basically every single day and we both eat clean and healthy and are careful to take care of our bodies and expect our third to follow suit even if they aren't there yet.

We don’t really have much of a preference in terms of physical appearance for what we are looking for, we just basically want someone who can chill with us and we can give attention to, that we both can playfully boss around, to be overbearing sometimes or fuss over, and share as our most precious possession that we can polish into his most natural, unstoppable radiance.

We prefer this to be a closed triad.

If this is something you really truly deeply want then send me a message telling about something I wrote in this post related to the non-negotiables or preferences or anything in the general body of text. Definitely include your age and location and a little bit about yourself and your how you spend your time.