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Content warning: Sexual Violence, PTSD
I'm a 27 year old queer enby who is coming to gentle femdom after having survived sexual violence in August. Surviving trauma can be quite painful, and I'm looking for a gentle femdom to help make things feel less scary.
I'm looking for someone who is trauma-informed, or at least open to learning about trauma so we can come this with a solid understanding of what to expect from each other. I want someone who understands consent, and has great communication skills. Also, I'm looking for someone who's an intersectional feminist. Not too sound to academic or pointdexterish, but I've turned to this after being steeped in feminist care ethics. I think the world is dangerous place, and caring for one another is how we make each other feel safe. If you're queer and/or trans that's also a plus.
I don't expect a therapist or a savior. I want to go into this with strong boundaries in place so I won't take too much of your energy or emotionally exhaust you. And I will do what I can to make sure that this is a rewarding experience for you as well.
Some facts about me: I love post-punk, The New Yorker, Susan Sontag, and Kate Bush. I'm 6 feet tall and have wavy hair, big eyes, and full feminine lips. I have pictures on my profile, if you wanna admire how cute I am :) I work as a freelance journalist, and have written about numerous things like street nursing and systemic racism.
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