Hi! I’m newly 24, non-binary, they/them, (this label for now fits best. AFAB if that’s important to you, pre-everything :/ ), and have been a part of the bdsm community for around 5 years. I’m 5’8”, very pale, short brown hair, and I’d say I’m skinny but in an average kind of way. I became interested in kink long before I got into the details of it all. I’ve had both online d/s dynamics and in person. Ideally I’d really prefer something in person eventually, but I’ll talk about that more below.

My ideal dynamic & what kind of dom I am: •I used to consider myself more gentle/soft and in a way I still would. I’ve been on both sides of the dynamic but enjoy having the control and power far more than giving those things up to someone else. I am big on the mental side of d/s dynamics so if that seems like something you’re interested in, I’m a good person for that! I deeply enjoy caring for someone in subspace. I am gentle in the sense that I am not personally into degrading anyone or being “mean”. I’m not afraid to punish when a rule has been broken and I’m still a bit of a sadist. I’m huge on aftercare and coddling a sub after play. I love a service sub who wants to do things for me outside of the sexual side of a dynamic as well within reason of course. Looking for someone who understands D/s dynamics are mental, emotional, physical, and sexual. I would eventually like to create a contract with a future partner as well.

What I’m looking for: •open to experienced or inexperienced subs •any gender, I’m pansexual and demi <3 I tend to lean towards other masculine people but again open to anyone •age 21-27. This is non-negotiable!! •someone who wants something similar to me in regards to dynamics •I am monogamous but I could possibly be open to trying new things once we’re more established •see me as more than a kink dispenser, LTR, more than just the d/s dynamic •similar interests/hobbies, similar kinks •lives near me (Ideally East TN, North GA). I’m open to traveling up to 3 hours or so from my location but tangible in person play is important to me in the future of a dynamic. If you’re outside of this, just be in the same EST time zone as me preferably.

non-kink interests/hobbies: •reading, writing, science fiction, fantasy, movies, art of any kind, music, animals, hiking, insects, thrifting

a few kinks to give you an idea of what I enjoy (you don’t have to like all of these, and there are plenty more than this): •collaring, non-permanent marking, exhibitionism, CNC/free use (very light), pet play (light), bondage, forced/ruined orgasm, orgasm control, high protocol, overstimulation, sensory deprivation, temperature play, giving praise, spanking more Hard limits: pee, scat, blood

Please send me an introduction with your name/nickname, age, brief description of your physical appearance, a bit about yourself in regards to BSDM and regular interests you currently have. You can include any other information in this initial message as well as any questions you have already. Also tell me your favorite scent so I know you read to the end!