Happy holidays! I hope everyone is finding what they’re looking for this time of year. I come to you in a new place mentally than I’ve ever found myself before. I have gone back and forth on what I wanted from relationships and sexuality for some time now, but I’m resolute and determined that this is not only what I want, but what I need. I can’t live without it. I get through withdrawals, and though I’ve tried to fight it and explored everything else in the past, this is who I am. And I’m ready to let that special person see all of it.

As stated, I’m 32 and educated. I work both in research in conjunction with a university and in a private clinic. I’ve recently made the choice to practice more than continue in academia. I work a lot, but I have many other passions that keep me grounded. I write (and read obviously), love all things art and culture, and can get lost on any conspiracy theory for hours. I’m very type B, but am often told I display as extremely confident. I’m a softy, I love theater and all things art, but also have all of your typical male hobbies like sports and not asking for directions. I’ve even been described as a renaissance man, though I’m still unsure what was exactly meant by it.

Sexually, I’ve had many relationships all across the kink spectrum. Ive been a dom, a sub, and everything in between. But it often feels like im chasing my first relationship where I was a high school sub dating a college girl domme. Think Call Me By Your Name, but straight kink instead.

I love humiliation, power exchange, exhibitionism, pain, cum control, and many more. I don’t do age play, and the obvious ones like blood/animals/etc. I have tried just about everything, and love to explore. Better said, I love to make it about you. I’m a show off, and good at it too.

As for you, I’m open to all sorts of dominate women. Younger, older, no racial or ethnic preference. I tend to be drawn to the boss woman stereotype, like those in grad school, prelaw/med, healthcare, business, finance, you name it. However, any demographic can fit the bill. If you have any questions, be sure to ask!

Inquire within! I want to dive deep and not look back. Let me hand the keys over to you ;)