Hey there! Obviously the title is serious, but that is because I want to be clear with what my goal is: To never having to post again. That said, I'm not expecting to jump into anything right away but to simply start out chatting and see if we match/there is a connection yada yada. :)
Anyway: With that cleared up here's me:
I'm a 26yo Norwegian with lots of love but sadly no-one to give it to. (Yet.) Being a Christian with personality traits such as affectionate, tender, supporting and loyal rather than that of a leader, taking charge and alpha type I have found my search for a compatible partner rather challenging. Simply put I'm looking for someone I click with who who also identifies with a more Role Reversal type dynamic who also happens to be a Christian. I know its a rare combination, but being an outlier I guess I'm simply just looking for another? One other thing is, I'm looking for someone who like me doesn't drink/do drugs. Its just something I've never been a fan of/comfortable with. Looking for monogamous and long term obviously. Those are my only dealbreakers.
As for me I'm a person who connects with few, but connects deep with those he do. Stable, loyal and honest, in offer of support and Ill hear your rants. Extremely loving and caring to those close to me. However I will tell you my actual thoughts on your dress. :D As for how I'm like, I'm the blushy cute and cuddly nerdy type and I have a pretty chill approach to life. Id describe myself as a quirky introvert, slightly nerdy and into books, board games, puzzles, videogames, fantasy and so on. I do have a tiny Pika plushie that I'm proud of. That said I'm also down for outdoors and playing sports, and like to be active every now and then and play disc golf amongst others. I like to joke, both innocently and more edgy and its simply part of the package with me. A note is that with the exception of the gender roles I do have fairly traditional Christian values.
Relationship wise:
It is always hard to tell who you click and have chemistry with but having common values and either a few shared interests or an activity that we would like to do together is a good start. Also bonus points if you are decisive and knows how to take a lil charge. Or if you love cuddles. I'm fan of the sappy stuff.
Relationship wise Id absolutetly love a RR-type dynamic, the exactly specifics of which would depend on how we compliment each other. My dream is for you to be fine with and even encourage my softer traits and allow me to be my warm, supportive, clumsy and cuddly little softie self rather then a alpha type handyman. And for you to perhaps be more of the decisive type?
I'm happy to verify by exchanging pictures once you get in touch and hopefully you are too. Even though chemistry and stuff is a big part there is no denying that physical attraction still is a factor and it is better to get that sorted out first.
Health: I didn't initially include this in my post as I kind of found it being TMI but after talking to someone for which this turned out to matter greatly I feel an obligation to include it as to not lead someone on falsely.
I am currently disabled. (On disability) At 18 I got sick, and I was later diagnosed with Conversion disorder. Briefly explained: My nervous system ran haywire, became oversensitive so that stress along w a few other things would cause me to have very physical reactions such as uncontrollable shaking and passing out. At around age 21-22 the worst was over and I managed to somewhat stabilize in part due to life-adaptation (A calmer lifestyle) and getting familiar with warning signs (And my body settling after being done with my teenage years) and could start back up at University again. Now Im doing even better and I recently finished my Bachelor, and my goal is to continue on to Masters and then to become a part time teacher. I still have light symptoms but they are much rarer and milder. I have my own place, am doing ok financially and will also be fine should I get a partner and family. Im also fine mentally. That said, I will most likely not be able to work 100%, but have a part time job and be part time on disability.
As for settling I'm currently bound by my nations borders for another year or two. Although I would prefer settling here I am open to most English speaking countries (Especially the US) in the future should I find the right match and if my situation allow for it. (My disability do fortunately transfer). As for visiting there's way more flexibility and Im more than happy to make a trip (or more) to meet up as I am rather serious about this. :)
Anyway, if you've made it this far and you think we could hit it off be sure to send me a message. I would prefer it if you also added a paragraph about or two about yourself so I can get an impression of you as well.
Cant wait to get to know you!
Remember I don't bite, I cuddle.
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