Hi there, I'm Dreamer.

For almost three months now, I've been pursuing longterm mental health treatment. I spent a month in a residential facility outside of Nashville for a month. After I was released, I spent a week and a half in a PHP program in Chattanooga. That wasn't the right fit for me, unfortunately, so I drove myself to Knoxville and have been at a PHP/transitional house for almost 5 weeks now.

I'm real close to Sevierville/Pigeon Forge but unfortunately I can't really go anywhere outside of clinical until I graduate PHP to IOP (and move into the IOP house that's in the works) and can get a job and find some sort of permanent housing once I graduate the IOP program. I'm so itchy to get back to everyday life and now that I'm in a much better headspace, I want to meet some new people and (hopefully) find someone special.

Anyway, where do I start about me?

I'm a 25-year-old Black woman (26 in less than 2 months) that is an Aquarius and INFJ-T. I have brown eyes, nice lips and my fingers/hands are my favorite part of my body. I'm very thick but I've been eating better and exercising while in treatment. I'm thinking of having weight loss surgery in the future but we'll see what happens. Also, I'm 5 feet, 7 inches so kinda tall.

Hobbies/interests: Writing, music, playing computer/video games, photography, watching TV and movies, people watching, traveling and so much more I can't think of right now. Also, I started journaling on Day 3 of residential and I've been doing it ever since then. It's been such a joy to have someone "listen to" my honest thoughts and feelings without judgment. If you and I get close, I'd love to share some of my entries and the journey that I've been on ever since then.

Before all this shit went down and my life fell apart, I had plans to start pre-req classes for nursing school next month. But now that I'm an entirely new situation (and region), I've been flirting with the idea of attending online classes at WGU and maybe getting my Bachelor's in Business or something like that. We'll see what happens; I need to get settled first, of course.

Hnm, some random stuff about me: I love animals (especially cats and dogs!), I only drink socially; haven't had a drink in 80 days and since this is a program for both mental health and substance abuse that requires sobriety from everyone regardless (combined with the many meds I'm on that might make me accidentally OD if mixed with alcohol) so I'm completely sober. I don't do drugs and I'm also clean and disease free... I have car and most of my sanity lmao.

Due to some recent stress in our community that has recently been resolved, I took up vaping and have been doing it on and off for a while. I do enjoy the nicotine rush a lot but I'm willing to give it up if that really bothers you. Just let me know.

What am I looking for in a guy?

1. Someone who is taller than me (I'm 5'7" in case you forgot)
2. Someone who has nice hair (I've always been attracted to hair that's long enough for me to touch and play with whenever I want lol)
3. Has good qualities such as kindness, sweetness, honesty, caring, lovable, affectionate, gentleness, maturity, understanding, etc...
4. Between the ages of 22-32 (I'm willing to make an exception if you match everything that I'm working on and are generally mature)
5. Displays chivarly to me and other women (holding doors open, being cognizant to my needs and feelings, all that fun stuff)
6. Likes and enjoys expressing your preferred love languages (My top three are words of affirmation, physical touch and gift giving/receiving... but I love them all tbh!)
7. Enjoys going out and doing fun stuff together but also enjoys hanging out, watching movies, ordering in food, etc... just to name an example!
8. Loves animals! Whenever I find my own place, I'd love to adopt a kitten since I had to give up my cats when we lost our place in Middle TN
9. Lives within driving distance; I want us to spend time together regularly and build that emotional intimacy with each other.
   1. Has a car, so we can drive around and do stuff during our times together. I'm the best passenger princess out there! Haha.

Other miscellaneous things that I like: Blue eyes (this is optional but would be an amazing plus for me!), soft and sweet personalities, deep conversations, lots and lots of cuddles, kisses and hugs.

I'm looking for a long term relationship. No FWBs or "situationships" or "cheating." I want someone who is completely single and emotionally/mentally available to connect with and fall in love with someone. Again, as I mentioned, I need an in-person connection. If you aren't local, long distance would be okay for a short while but if you aren't in any position to visit/have me visit regularly, then please don't waste your time.

As far as the gentle femdom aspect goes, I'm a switch and I've been itching to do femdom related activities with a partner who is a sub or a switch. I don't have a ton of experience but I'm always willing to learn and take feedback. I just want you to be my sweet boy and whenever I'm feeling switchy, I want to be your sweet girl.

I want someone to hold hands with, go on dates, go run errands together, engage in lots of physical affection, cuddling up together on cold nights, taking spontaneous drives with our favorite music on, hanging out with friends, eventual physical intimacy, all of that fun stuff.

There's tons more to say but I'll leave it there for us to build upon. If you decide to message me, PLEASE put some effort into it. At the very bare minimum, tell me the basics about you (age, height, hair color, eye color, body type, etc) a recent SFW picture of yourself, where you live, your hobbies/interests, your intentions for a long term relationship and if you're willing and able to maintain the in-person elements that I desire. Anything else you want to add to your message is much appreciated; longer messages tend to catch my eye.

Please put the word "Spooky" in your message so I know that you actually read all of this. If you ask me questions about things that I already talked about in my post, I'm gonna assume you didn't actually take the time to read it.

I hope to hear from you soon! Stay sweet!