I'm not sure if this is the right place yet I feel compelled to put myself out there.

While I don't consider myself "kinky", normies would disagree. I'm not into pain or humiliation or even any sort of sissification yet my relationships with women have always been a bit queer. I've always been attracted to women who take on certain "masculine" roles, even if they're very feminine. (I love tomboys too!)

My last girlfriend was all about pegging me and I couldn't get enough of it. It feels incredibly natural to me, from gentle and romantic to athletic and lusty.

Moreover, I love assertive women and I love to please—I love giving backrubs and cooking for partners. Very r/gentlefemdom in various ways.

Things I'm into generally:
• personal growth
• language learning
• chess
• cute animals—especially prey animals (rabbits, etc.)
• Indian food!
• barefoot jogging
• being a word-nerd
• (sea) kayaking

Femdom-wise, I'm into:
• being a very good cozy boy
• getting pegged
• open to chastity caging...although I have a high libido
• snuggling
• being owned
• intelligent women who know what they want and are not shy about communicating it

Limits include pain (other than a little spanking) and humiliation.

I'm 43, child-free, somewhat youthful-looking, tall and lanky, naturally skinny but make it a point to stay somewhat fit, a little scruffy (facial hair grown out just enough to be soft so it's never sandpapery) yet somehow vaguely feminine, fashionable, effusive, and worldly. I love people yet I'm ultimately an introvert who recharges via quiet cozy time. I'm monogamous, experienced with relationships (yet never married/divorced), and a good communicator.

I'm a city kid currently enjoying living out in the country between the aforementioned cities and I also travel a fair amount so could make anything around there work.

I'm also looking at making myself much more mobile in the next couple of years so am open to conversing with people living anywhere with whom this ad resonates.

I've had quality relationships with older and younger women so am open on age.

I hope you all stay cozy out there and find a partner who fits what you're looking for! Thanks for reading.