I like giving service. There's a special joy in knowing I'm the reason for your smile. Seeing you relax into a soothing massage, savoring the new dish I cooked just for you or just listening to you talk about the new book you read all would make me happy. I've always been a giving person - I hope to get to know every little way your body responds so I can get you off exactly how you like it.

Now, I'm inexperienced, but not new to kink. I co-host a popular munch for kinksters in the city and have been participating in various events in the local kink community for a year. I've taken the time to read and learn about BDSM and myself. I'm a sub-leaning switch, but just looking to be submissive at this point. And I like the gentler aspects, focused more towards pleasure, sensation and praise, but I'm happy to explore. I feel most of kink is the psychological elements anyway.

Most of my time is dedicated towards building my two communities - munch and D&D. Dungeons & Dragons (D&D) is a new passion I've discovered. I help run a popular local D&D community and organize monthly workshops there. Apart from this, I have typical nerdy interests, but I balance them out with a lot of reading and sports like kayaking and squash. This winter, I also want to pick up dance classes! Oh, and I'm 5’11, here's what I look like: https://imgur.com/gallery/j8t4KNZ

But back to you. Because I'm new, I think I'd gel well with someone younger who's also exploring or with someone who knows what they want. I appreciate intelligent women who can communicate directly and openly. Someone with passion! I also appreciate those who read a lot or have nerdy interests, but that's not necessary so long as you can respect my interests. One of which is my love for cooking - specially spicy food. I'm looking forward to learning not only how you like your food, but how to worship you exactly as you like it best 😉.

However - I'm demisexual. Anything sexual is meaningless with having a connection first. I hope you're open to spending time outside of kink getting to know each other and building a relationship that's consistent.

If this sounds appealing to you, drop me a chat request and let's meet up for a coffee this cuffing season!