Hi, so I am probably going to fail at this, I am not a real Femdom, I probably a switch but honestly I don't like being told what to do, I seem to get upset. No married men, and perhaps I am in the wrong community but please be over 35? I am a mom, and I don't want to talk to someone who could be my kid.

So a bit a bit about me. I am what you probably call a more gentle femdom. I am sweet natured and am more into a loving relationship then being mean to someone.

Major turn offs for me is verbal degradation, I have an aversion to telling people they are a piece of .....

Anyway so first of all, I want some romance. I am not looking for just online I want a real relationship that maybe started online?

I am a hopeless romantic and I can't really open myself up with someone unless I feel a connection.

Are you someone who wants to have something more then an online flirt or BDSM session?

I want and need the good mornings, and good night from my person. I feel drawn to being called goddess or Miss, and I like calling my submissive my pet. But of course I am flexible. I do NOT have a dominant personality, I am not so bold until I know you awhile so your dealing with someone who is shy, nervous but wanting this to happen.

Major turn ons

Bondage Pegging Cock cages Being worshiped Collars Foreign accents (Aussie, England, Ireland, Scotland) not a requirement but IDK maybe I will get lucky if I mentioned it haha.

IDK I am probably making this too long and hoping for some crazy miracle to happen and I find my special someone.

Before you respond realize I don't want this just about BDSM, or what I can do to please you, I am wanting to talk about my AND your mundane life AND kink. If that's not something you want then please don't write me. I'm hoping for some sort of night in shining armor who wants to be my special playmate and long term lover and friend.

I will want to swap pictures, and eventually if I am comfortable go to voice chat and video chats. So no catfishing please 🥺