Hey everyone!
I'm a 20 year old submissive boy from the UK, currently living in the North East of England. I'm looking for a Domme, preferably with at least some experience, either online or in person, to hopefully build something long-term with.
Me
I'm 20 years old. I'm about average height at 171cm/5'8". I'm currently 60kg, which makes me fairly skinny. I love swimming and walking to keep myself fit though. I take pride in my body and take really good care of it, as best I can. I have shortish, brown hair currently but I'm regrowing it back out. I have no body hair anywhere, except on my head :). I'd like to think I'm cute, but you'd be the judge.
I'm currently in a gap year, working part-time right now until university. I love anime & manga. I love Japan & East Asia as well, particularly academic study of it. History too! So I guess that makes me a bit of a nerd. I'd describe myself as alternative, due to my fashion and I listen to that sort of music. Bit of a gamer that's for sure. I'm not too active on reddit, mostly just for browsing. However, I use Discord a lot.
I love learning new things and about others. And definitely about other cultures and foreign places. I am a bit introverted, but in the right environment/with the right person, I'm really sociable. Definitely open-minded. Would think of myself as friendly, caring and approachable, as well as helpful. I can cook and would love to cook for you. I can also travel within the UK now and again, I like to get out. :)
You
I'm pretty open minded about who I'm looking for. However, I do have some requirements in mind. I'm looking for someone 18-30 years old. Relatively fit and healthy with their body. I don't mind if you're shorter or taller than me, doesn't matter to me.
Personality wise, the main thing is someone whos enjoyable to talk to, friendly and caring. A person who I can call a friend and talk with about our interests.
Ideally UK based for real life or online (UK/Europe prefered so our time zones work much better, but I could work with elsewhere if we match that well). Hopefully interested in something more long-term. Either as a relationship, friendship or just FWB sort of thing. I do want to build a genuine connection and someone I can enjoy talking with.
I'm open to you being gentle, a mommy, or more of a hard, traditional style Domme. Ideally, with at least some experience.
The Femdom/Kink aspect
Honestly, I see this as way more than just a kink or fetish. I see it as my lifestyle and part of who I am as a person. I've known I'm submissive for a few years now, and have some prior experience online with this with people. It just brings satisfaction and purpose to me really, I love it. I would love to serve a Domme with total control over me, and to worship her and make her happy. That sounds perfect to me.
I'll start with my hard limits: Cuckolding/cheating, Bi play in any way, scat, vomit & blood, findom, violent play.
However, here's my list of kinks: Acts of service (as a lifestyle too), full body worship (nothing off limits there), praise, tease & denial, edging, oral & rimming, slave/servitude, honorifics, ruined orgasms, various sex toys, chastity, footplay, pegging & other anal play, biting & scratching, all sorts of bondage and rope play, collar & leash, punishment, pet play (I especially love being called a dog etc.) Body writing, TPE, free use, as well as CNC. Open to dominatrix, gentle or mommy type of femdom.
If you see something in neither of these lists, I might be open to it or have forgotten it. Let's talk about it! I'm open to feminisation and being turned into a femboy, if you're into that. Of course, you don't have to be into all of these things, but the more the better. My main focus would be serving and pleasing you.
Next steps?
If I meet any of your criteria at all, or you meet mine, then great! Or if you like the sound of me, send me a message. I'm willing to send face pictures and more information about me in our messages.
I do have a Snapchat and Discord if it would be easier to talk on either of those, let me know.
Tell me your favourite colour so I know you've read this fully. I look forward to it :)
I aim to reply to your first message quickly, usually within 4-5 hours unless I'm sleeping. I check my phone regularly.
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